we often fight but we're good friends as well. I fell for him, how will i know that he felt the same way? is it ok if i tell him that i'm jealous whenver he's with another girl?
2007-02-15 22:49:21 · 9 answers · asked by starunner05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What, you planning to become his little f*cktoy? 'Cause that's what he'll take you for. You should be embarrassed for liking this freak!
Have you no pride in yourself whatsoever?
2007-02-15 22:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we all know that good friendships and a strong attraction often turns into something more. That's how many long-term relationships happen and end up successful. So don't worry too much about ruining what you have. It's natural to take the next step.
How you should do it is another thing...I'm not sure I'd play the indirect game of telling him it makes you jealous. A lot of guys hate having to make a read and then wonder what that means. Just tell him straight up about one of his "features" that you find attractive that you can't stop thinking about. Get his attention on a personal level, and in bits and pieces tell him how you feel. Make it as gradual as you can. You'll have plenty of time to back out without feeling embarrased if he doesn't feel the same way...
2007-02-15 22:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell him about your jealousy. But I would tell him that you're interested, that's for sure, because if he's really your best friend and if you guys know each other really well, then by now he already knows it. You see, the same thing is happening to me. My best friend fell for me. The problem is, she's very beautiful, and she is used to have men after her, doing all the work. Since I'm not that interested in behaving that way (I've yet to determine whether I like her that way or not), I'm not doing anything. But things between us are starting to change - she's become more aggressive, she criticizes me more, and she even freaked one day on the phone because I didn't tell her that I was studying with another girl. She's even begun to say that friends of mine have asked her out, just to provoke me.
It's really bad, because I miss the way we used to get along, without all the friction we have today. And I know what she wants - she wants me to tell her I'm into her, when she's obviously the most interested one.
Don't let your friendship come to this.
2007-02-15 23:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by C.B.Artist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In love there is no such thing as 'embarassing', U don't have to tell in public, u can tell him in private. But u must tell, or how will he know ? Yes u can tell him u are jealous if he goes with another girl, and that u could kill him or maybe the other girl.
2007-02-15 22:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When will women ever figure out that the BAD BOY type will ALWAYS cheat on you. The reason they are the BAD BOY type is because women do find that attractive. So, either share him or forget him. He will never be satisfied with just one woman.
2007-02-15 23:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be hard but you need to go on a few dates and watch how he responds, even take it so far as too show fake interest in a guy and see if he bites. If so you know you got em.
2007-02-15 22:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by Edward 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you have to decide how important your friendship with him is and if you're willing to lose it. If you're willing to take that chance talk to him right you before you leave after spending time together. Tell him you know by telling him this is it may ruin your friendship, but you can't hold it in anymore....good luck :)
2007-02-15 22:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Rugged Badboy Type"?....whoah...ure lame!!!!!!!!
2007-02-16 02:57:51 · answer #8 · answered by Annie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and tell him how you fill.
2007-02-15 23:24:41 · answer #9 · answered by step b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋