in the recent survey by UNICEF...it has been SAID THAT children in USA n UK are worst brought up!!do u agree?

Answer 1

This statement appears to be right up to some extent.

I have seen in US where the children do not get adequate emotional support that they need in their infancy, adolescence and teen age.

In a US hospital I saw a nurse bringing a new born baby to her mother and laying her on mother’s bosom for her to hug the child, touch her and caress her. She gives a message to the mother to hug the child, touch the child, love the child and keep her clinging to herself… and it is left to the mother how much she does all this painful (?) exercise in the time to come…

However, mothers feel the emotions at the most, for that moment. The child is separated from her mother… then onwards. The child sleeps separately for a month or two near the mother’s bed and thereafter the child finds herself all alone in a separate room. You can count how many times the mother touches the child because the upbringing of a child is a drill the mother follows… based on the training she receives out of parenting books and trainers.

You will find very few children laughing and chatting with their parents. Especially, girls of 12 to 14 with a gloomy blank face looking at every one with suspicion. Or they would be quite opposite… shouting, rushing here and there, hitting at furniture and doing all sorts of things attracting attention of the crowd. Both types these children are victims of neglect by their parents.

However, such situations are bound to arise as long as parents keep changing frequently. If the married lives of couples prolong then the upbringing of the children will improve…