Well.. You guys have got to help me.. I have this best friend at school.. She has a major crush on this boy. When the boy knows that my friend is crushing on him... He didnt react, he's mood is like the same happy as usual. But when my friend's friends told the boy, that my friend isnt crushing on him. He got mad, now.. My friend is so sad.. She really wants to be with him, but he just faked the "I dont like him" so that they can be friends again.. But now she is sobbing.. I need advice. I want to help her. They look so cute together...
2007-02-15 22:11:50 · 10 answers · asked by Will 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think the boy your friend is crushing on is just faking it. why would he get mad if he didn't feel the same right? tell your friend to talk to this boy once and for all :) i'm 17, i know what teenagers feel too. i think telling him the truth is the easiest way out. teenagers really do the "stupidest" thing when they like someone. it's not easy to let someone in because of fear of getting hurt but then if she really likes this guy, she should tell him. let her do the first move. who knows? they might just end up together and they'll have a great story to tell.
2007-02-15 23:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by nic_chan35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to the guy she is crushing on and tell him that. also try to put them in situations where they could be alone. don't try to force the relationship but some pushes in the right direction aren't bad either. tell the guy how she really feels about him. go to the mall in a group and let people slowly start leaving and then them be alone. or go to the movies and sit in pairs. getting them talking about being open and flirty is the first part. letting them both know that the other one likes them the next. then it should just fall in place.
2007-02-16 06:18:00 · answer #2 · answered by Daze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them to share some moments togather and open up ... From ur post it looks obvious that their main problem is lack of communication ... So instead of listening from third person u make sure that these 2 meets to spend some quality time with eachother ... And after that I feel they both can took decision which will good for them.
2007-02-16 06:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try calling them both together at the same place at the same time but he shouldnt know that she is coming and she shouldnt know that if is coming.When they are there there's a surprise for both of them.Just tell him that she loves him bfore her and when she responds bfor him they both get to know what d truth is.Then u can leave the scene leavin them alone to talk.
I think this might work.Just try it out.
2007-02-16 07:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by SE7EN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to suck it up and ask him out, the worst he can do is say no.
And the both of them should really stop buying into the middle school hearsay bull, and actually make decisions based on direct contact, and not a meddling go-between.
2007-02-16 06:16:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is sad, but I'm sure you will make her understand that sometimes the person you like back wont like you in return..but you seem very caring and she must mean something to you if it's troubling you. i think you like her yourself and if you do, let her know because you might be what she's looking for and is looking for it in the wrong type of guys. take care of her and let her know you care and you'll always be there for her...and don't forget to mention you like her.
2007-02-16 06:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by ♥!BabyDoLL!♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friend should speak to this boy herself and tell him how she feels. I know you friends are trying to help but it sounds like its all getting a bit complicated. If they were friends anyway and she does really like him then she should tell him. Whats she got to loose - if they're not speaking anyway!
2007-02-16 06:19:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
righto, the question is really confusing, but i would say that from my understanding of the question: dont talk to ur friend yet, talk to the guy shes crushing on and tell him how she feels and why shes upset.
2007-02-16 06:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will gives them a soluton. time is the best medicin for all illnesses.
2007-02-16 06:24:22 · answer #9 · answered by thipathni a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused, this really doesn't make much sense. Maybe you could rephrase it?
2007-02-16 06:16:27 · answer #10 · answered by Siany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋