I've not spoken to my close female friend for 2 months as we got to close.I told her that I wanted no contact so that I could get over my feelings for her. She only wanted to be friends.
I've tried to get bck in touch as I've got over her now and I'm interested in another girl.I've apologised if I wasn't tactful in the way I said I wanted no contact for awhile
She's txt bck:i really do not have the energy to keep explaining things to you.I will be civil but i'm afraid i feel the close friendship is lost...........
Why she like this - she wanted to be friends?
All lost?
p.s. her comment of not having energy to keep explaining things to me is when she didn't want to further than friends---THAT WAS 3 MONTHS AGO!!!
HOW WILL SHE FEEL SEEING ME ON FRIDAY???
SEEING HER ON FRIDAY-ANY ADVICE???
(Wth other mates)
Why wud she avoid me?
2007-02-15 22:11:29 · 9 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Be civil, be polite.....BE YOURSELF!!!!
She liked you as a friend once, don't try to be anything else.
2007-02-15 22:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by afewideas 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women do not want guys who come off needy. Clingy? Weakish
but
a man who comes across this acts differently. Men are bowed over when a good looking gal comes on to them..boink boink boning all the way down the road ....who can resist and who want to resist such temptation..few do..even Clinton and most red blooded men..but women?? another story..i am afraid you are a lost cause with her as you now are..but if she seen that other attractive women showed interest in you she would change her mind in a New York minute and then she would have different feelings for you. Now at best she looks at you as a pathetic looser..just like her little brother she want to give him money to get lost...life can be cruel..get a life
2007-02-15 22:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see her... look uninterested... obviously there is some tension or a feeling of uneasiness on her side. Say hi and nothing more... give her a smile and nothing more. This will make her think that she might be wrong jsut dismissing the friendship coz what happened doesn't seem to have an effect on you anymore. If she doesnt want to be friends with you again after this... then move on. focus on the new girl your interested with. The new girl doesn't deserve your divided attention... unless you are still interested in your friend... and your hoping that you can be close again so you have another chance... Be honest to yourself first...
2007-02-15 22:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by raiden 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I kind of understand were she is coming from, first you say you are really close, and then you cut her off, guys can do that, women can't. Women just can't cut there feelings for someone off, so now that she has been away from and probably still has what you did to her the last time, she may still be afraid that you may get too close again and cut her the freindship off again, then again if she has feeligns for you, this makes it worse.
2007-02-15 22:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is confused too, not only you......
One day you told her you want her more than a friend..... then you cut any connection with her...... and now you are making a come back.......
You were for her a good friend, and she lost you once..... Maybe she can not trust your friendship anymore.
I am not sure everything lost, just try to understand her.....
2007-02-15 22:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by drorba1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she fancies you, to me. Play it cool( not too cool) and just keep a bit of friendly distance. Joke and laugh with all your other mates- she'll want you badly by the end of the night. Have a good one!
2007-02-15 23:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by Ha-ha Lewis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is ..u shouldnt have tried to get over it in the first place... There is no result for any exam unless you appear for it....you should go ahead and try your best to get your feelings accross to her....no need to despair..in case the result is negative...atleast you didnt lose without giving it a try..!!
Good Luck..!!
2007-02-15 22:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by Radical Dude 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Too much pride dude on her behalf, don't fret- you gave her what she wanted (though because you did & she may have thought you wouldnt the baloon deflated)
2007-02-15 22:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by MJR 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who knows what goes on in womens minds. Bet you you'll be in trouble when you see her though ! Good luck!
2007-02-15 22:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by SilverSurfer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋