Hi all ! I am depressed these days . I was dead sure of a career but now i have to change my career plans .?

Question

Now i am upset & not feeling any confidence ! The change is a must ! But to adapt to new situations & face it what attitude i have to adopt ! Meanwhile nobody is there to give an emotional support ! what should i do ? Meanwhile to make matters worse i have a careless bf too ? Any advice

Answer 1

Love yourself. Build up your confidence (there are countless self-help books out there & they really do work if you do what they say! Start saying positive affirmations. Take care of yourself, exercise, eat right.) If the boyfriend is careless then tell him to shape up or ship out. You don't need someone dragging you down. Love yourself & be good to yourself. Then you'll have the confidence to land any job you want & you can find the man of your dreams (or realize you don't need a man at all & are quite happy on your own).

Good luck. Believe in yourself. You can do anything you choose! If no one is there to give you support then be your own cheering section! Build yourself up. You can do it! Just keep thinking positive & doing positive things & it will all fall into place.

I know it can be tough. Being positive is an uphill battle for a negative girl like me, but I'm learning....Remember: you are not alone. A lot of people are depressed, insecure, going through difficult changes in life. Some people are just better at faking it so they seem to have it all together. No one's life is easy! We all have our struggles.

Take care. Be strong.

I liked this quote when I found it years ago:

"Treating myself like a precious object will make me strong." Be good to yourself. You are precious! Have a bubble bath, get yourself a new outfit or hairstyle. Look & feel your best. Do something you enjoy. Then get out there & take on that world & know that you can!!!

Answer 2

Concentrate on your career. You are probably not alone in your situation - what have other people done? Forget the careless bf for awhile. Just get some job counseling, maybe go back to night school and take a few courses to make yourself more employable for the dream job that you want.
Good luck!

Answer 3

Don't get depressed. Depression can make you look older, do you know?

Keep yourself engaged in something. The more you live alone and do nothing the more you get depressed. You can read, listen to music, travel, browse the internet, get associated with any organisation - social, cultural or voluntary (and political too, if you don't mind).

Mix with people. You can chat on the net, get involved with some online forums, yahoo answers etc, or visit your friends. Coming in contact with different people will help you understand others and yourself. When you will get to know about others' problems it will be easier for you to forget your own problem. There is a Bangla poem saying something like this : Once i did't have shoes.I was upset. One day I saw a man who didn't have legs and my and my want for shoes disappeared.

Answer 4

You might try to learn a prayer by heart. You might compose one yourself.

You might find and eat some good food together with your family, or together with some friends of yours where you also could chat a lot and have fun.

Or you might ...

When waking up in your morning,
you might go to your own window
and you might recite for yourself the following words,
and even try to improve on them:

My motto should from now on be:
Friendly fiercy pride
and good style
against all subduing and surrendering.

I want to spiritually fly high
on ever daring exciting adventure in the Sun,
over all bright hilltops and mountains
and above all green dales and blue seas.

I want my soul to proudly overfly
all the known horizons and borders
and those imagined and those unimaginable.

On the hard life struggle for survival
on the proud pilgrim's path to perfection
on the blazing flowerful springtime path
of ever dazzling virtuosity and virtuality

on ever daring exciting adventure in the Sun
ever ever proudly rising and ever converging
on the glowing scented path to bright Infinity.

So be it! So be it! So be it! Hurray ! !

Answer 5

hmm hard to give advice to someone you dont know at all, but a good way of makeing someone feel better is usually to relate your own similar experiences with them so they dont feel so alone in their suffering.. i too went to school for something that i wish i had not, now i am sorta stuck doing something i dont really love, quit my last job and am looking for another.. i am sorry nobody seems to be there for you, i have not had a real girl friend in years and i am sure you bf cares about you a little or at the very least helps to make you less lonley in this world... i wish you the best of luck in what ever you decide to do and hope your boyfriend begins to care more or you find someone who does care... have a good life

Answer 6

Try being a massage therapist, room salon girl, call girl, or even a stripper. Guys love girls with these professions. Good luck

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Here http://geobay.com/bf6f34 is a good article i found about depression with treatments etc, should help you.

Answer 9

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