he tells me this girl is like a sister to him, the girl does not know about me and my guy calls her overnight and he's even gone to sleep alone with her when he said she had malaria. Folks i am thinking of leaving the guy. Is it a good idea?
2007-02-15 21:22:41 · 22 answers · asked by tosynno 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What are your measurments?
2007-02-15 21:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of the questions on this site sound made up, and this is definitely one of them!
If this were true, then I wouldn't trust him. Why wouldn't he have introduced you? Why is he "hiding" you? Malaria? come on!
It seems that you wouldn't have to ask this, but the next step should obviously be to confront him. Let him know that you would like to meet her. Don't express that in a jealous way. See how he reacts and then you'll know...
You have every right to exist.
2007-02-16 05:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry hun but ditch him! he can give you all the excuses under the sun but it wont change the fact hes in a bedroom alone with another woman. If it was a slmber party and theres a mix of sexes all in one room then cool, i have sleepovers without my bf with a mix of guys and girls all the time but this is too far.
I suggest you tell him plain and simply no ifs or buts, if he doesnt stop now...its over, saying that hes already probably done stuff.
not sounding harsh, but hes a guy alone in a room with a chick. you do the maths
good luck to you x
2007-02-16 05:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by moomoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT NOW!!!!
The bottom line is, if you don't trust him, if you get that feeling in your gut that something is wrong, listen to it! That's your instincts telling you the obvious!
Sounds AWFULLY FISHY to me! But then I'm somewhat jealous by nature. I would have left him for a lot less than this. I would have said "I hope you & your sister live happily ever after. Hope that malaria clears up..."
Even if she was like a sister to him, it's very inappropriate to be sleeping with her!!! I never slept with my brother! Not enough therapy in the world for that!
2007-02-16 05:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by amp 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HE'S FULL OF ****.
Brothers and sisters have seperate bedrooms. If they were that close, she'd know about you.
Malaria is not contagious, which means one person cannot pass it directly to another. However, if a mosquito that is not infected bites an infected person, it picks up the malaria parasites. This means that according to his story, he put himself at risk.... and did she need someone to sleep with because of it? I CALL BULLSHIT
2007-02-16 05:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by daintyflower 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't leave him. Let me tell u, I too have a friend, who is like a sister to me. We eat from the same plate, I kiss her lightly on her cheeks, friendlyly. We sleep naked on the same bed, all night, still we are like brother-sister. The world does not believe me, but it is true. My heart is pure, so is the girls. I feel very protective about her and she too reciprocates this feeling.
I request u to re-thing your decision to leave him. In the long term, u will be the looser, and worse, u are being suspicious and doing a grave injustive to your bf.
2007-02-16 05:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are thinking about leaving? Only because of this message above?
Trust, Trust, Trust without it you will never have a fruitful relationship!
And that my dear is a good idea to trust.
2007-02-16 05:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by Bluelady... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of cult he got you mixed up in? This $hit stink so bad I can smell it over the internet. I don't know if I'm just sleepy or are all of you guys using the same computer and just having fun with me.
When you wake up in the morning.................. Be Single!
2007-02-16 05:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him an ultimatum. Tell him you are leaving if he does not stop sleeping with her, and make sure you act it. If he cannot take your feelings into consideration, then he does not love you. Move on!
2007-02-16 05:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by Sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, I don't believe there is nothing happened unless he was so dead drunk and passed out. Stay or leave is up to you to judge.
2007-02-16 05:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by Lilian 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who is he kidding?!
Girl, It's just like adding insult to injury.
Tell him to tell his stories to the marines!
2007-02-16 05:31:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋