I mean: suppose I accept certain kind of people as my friends and he cant, I think its perfectally fine to let my friends stay over, and he does not like that, Suppose best friends call me at 4am and he hates that,
I like to talk though problems, he would rather let time solve them
I like dealing with the situation now and moving on, He wont deal with the situation now, and see where it goes in a few days - and will Not talk about it.
I will invited my guy friends over for dinners and go out for movies and coffee with them, he gets over posessive.
He calls me 40 times a day, I dont like that
He is always late, I cant stand that
He is forever nagging me about how everything is schedualed in, but thats the way it works for me
When we fight, I usually go for a drive right after, and he has never once come after or asked me where i went, he just waits till i get back
I am not sure if this is the way it si suppose to be,
or what now? do i stick or say NEXT
2007-02-15 21:15:55 · 11 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I like the simple things he does for me, and the way he knows what i am going to say or thinking of, before i say anything
I love the way he thinks like me at times, and likes the same things as me
I like the way he keeps telli ng me he loves me
But, I DONT LIKE THE WAY, he has never said it in public, hugged or kissed me in public - that would just make me feel more like i am his only his
and i love hugs, and he isnt like that
2007-02-15 21:16:57 · update #1
Your list of things that you don't like about him is alot longer than the things you do like about him. I would take that as a warning sign. It sounds like you are 2 very different people. I think he's probably not the guy for you. You have too many things you don't like about him already. These things are going to get more annoying as time goes on unless one of you is willing to do a lot of compromising. He sounds a bit over obsessive calling you 40 times a day .....that's just too much. I don't know how you have time to do anything but talk on the phone.A;so. you sound like very different people. If you enjoy his company and it's worth it to put up with the differences then stay in the relationship but I don't think it's going anywhere. Next time look for certain qualities in a guy that you need to be happy. A relationship should be a 2 way street adn make both people happy. Good luck.
2007-02-15 21:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't look good. You guys are too different. You're always going to have some things in common with anyone, but that's not enough for a relationship. You should officially date one of those guys you enjoy going to dinners and movies with.
2007-02-16 05:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by ginger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You forget the part of that you like to screw other guys and you don't get why your boyfriend doesen't like that .
Pssst...
Men are not stupid.
If I knew that the girl that I was supposed to be having a relationship with was going out to dinner and movies with other guys,I would dump her in a heartbeat.
2007-02-16 05:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hello
Don't feel any angry - please stay with him - because he always doing like this means you have to watch why he is doing like this otherwise we have to change his happit - after our request he will not change means we have to quit some distance - that distance will give some reaction - after that just you see his eyes even he feels like this means finally we planned to quit.
Once we enter into this problem without knowing anything we have to face the problem till end.
He consider our request you will take it for granted other wise please try to avoid.
2007-02-16 05:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by krishnamoorthy r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the relationship is too serious for you, that you want to have other guy friends too. If that is OK for him great, if not say goodby,... again
2007-02-16 06:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say next
2007-02-16 05:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by SidBridge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEXT!!! The two of you are certainly not compatible.....and this will only get worse with time!
2007-02-16 06:35:46 · answer #7 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not bad do not leave him
just try to teach him in expressions and if he learns ok otherwise let him as he is now
this is my sincere advice
need not to justfy that
2007-02-16 05:21:43 · answer #8 · answered by Caring 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, he can't even handle his own life yet wants to control yours.
2007-02-16 05:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is quite controlling. you are in for a long haul sister.
2007-02-16 05:19:41 · answer #10 · answered by dali333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋