I have this situation where I have met someone who seems to be the very person I have dreamt about for as long as I can remember, including their personality....my question is could this be Mr Right, or just a fantasy that should be left that way. Is it possible that the right person is the very person I have imagined for so long, and believed never in a million years expected. The connection was instant, and felt like we had known each other forever....please I know it may sound like I am answering my own question but I really need feedback...I am not sure if I am thinking clearly because of this...
2007-02-15 20:54:18 · 8 answers · asked by chelles_insanity 4 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Yes it's very possible. You know.
I had that sort of instant connection with my boyfriend too. We're so much alike (both sensitive, romantic singer-songwriter Tauruses). It's like we knew it was meant to be when we met. We could see it in our eyes. I think when you find your soulmate you know.
Good luck! It could be the real thing. The true test is having a relationship. Sometimes you fall in love with the idea of someone & are disappointed in the reality. If it's meant to be, it will be, & if not then there will be someone else. But you might as well go for it. What do you have to lose? He may be the man of your dreams, literally. Sometimes when you think something & concentrate on it, the universe responds. What you put out there, you get back. You asked for him & then there he was, so don't blow it!
:)
Good luck! (By the way, you did answer your own question! You just want reinforcement or confirmation of what you already know. Well, you have it! I agree. You're probably not thinking clearly. Falling in love isn't rational! There's nothing wrong with that. Sometimes you have to follow your heart & risk everything! & if people tell you that you're nuts then they've probably never really been in love!)
2007-02-15 21:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by amp 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Our sub-conscious tends to build 'fantasies' based on our real experiences. So the guy you have met is probably the personification of a lot of desireable qualities that you have experienced as beneficial, right, fair, attractive, etc.
It's a great start, and you will get those feelings if the guy has some of the good qualities that you have experienced, but it is a start and you need to take time out occasionally to make sure that you are in the real world and not just building on the fantasy.
Good luck to you both.
2007-02-15 21:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by steveb9458 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything you fantasies doesnt mean its the right thing for you. No one will ever know who is there Mr.right, or Ms.Right. You will fantasies that you will love an intelligent man, but in the end you will end up loving a dumb guy. Love is something so mysterious.
You never know when someone will come and hit you with those love arrows. It might be a fat guy that you will love, or maybe a bad guy. So realy love sometimes can come to opposite of what you wanted. Dont worry you will find your soulmate even if he cames in a opposite form of what you wanted.
2007-02-16 04:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by mhshhaduw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's possible!!! But there's only one thing, are you committed and/or is he committed? If so leave it alone, and if you guys are really for each other then it will happen. Just don't do something unless the future is clear (meaning no relationships in the present), otherwise it will turn out bad.
In case you're single (both of you) then it's really cool what happened to you 2:)))))
2007-02-15 21:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by Bojana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had it ones, it did not work out and a painful breakup.... But I would not have mist it for anything. But the time we had was great in any circumstances: passionate, intense and great memories
What do you have to lose? It's 50% chance.
If you don't try it, you will always wonder.
Now I know why it did not work and I have peace with that.
2007-02-15 21:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by John Th 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you and I hope all your dreams come true.
A word of caution.
Dont allow your fantasy to cloud your vision of reality.
This is a good example of the ancient proverb where " Love is blind " could be influenced by dreams made in heaven.
Be gentle with yourself
2007-02-16 01:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by tillermantony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the start, its good which you're thinking approximately your destiny and what is going to come again of it, yet you will possibly be able to desire to undergo in recommendations you're in basic terms thirteen. you're some distance too youthful purely yet to be thinking approximately assembly the guy of your desires; in spite of each thing, this guy grew to become into in basic terms on your dream. attempt and save your ft on the floor and your head out of the clouds. attempt focusing on your college artwork and the place you want your existence to circulate profession smart. 9 situations out of 10 it is in artwork you meet the guy of your desires. i grew to become into 25 formerly I met the guy of my desires and that i might met him 6 years formerly we've been given jointly. Take some time and don't desire your existence away. i might like to be your age back. i comprehend you doubt it now, yet your teenage years rather are the main suitable of your existence =)
2016-12-17 17:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha, yes it is.
I was watching the tv shows of this Hong Kong actor for a while,
and a year after, he came to Singapore to promote a tv serial show. I went to see him, and i got near the stage and presented him with Sunflowers and a hug !
it is possible.
2007-02-16 21:44:21 · answer #8 · answered by Blessed Person :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋