I want to know how can I work as a girl with strong and powerful decisions in our culture
2007-02-15 20:49:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It requires practice. For starters- learn how to say "NO".
2007-02-15 21:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by LadyLuv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a very general question to get a really useful answer. What made you ask this question? Did something in particular happen or you are really craving for the power and attention that strong girls have? If you are not one of those and it is a personality thing, the chance is you might never become like one of those girls because temperament is basically inborn and doesn't change much through life. You can do enough though to cope with the situation so people can think of you positively, as a person who holds to her values and is not easily intimidated even though the truth might be somewhat different. How? By willfully trying to overcome your inborn personality. Yes, learn to say "No" as hard as it might be and say what you think, even though it might be opposite to what the other person thinks. Start with small things to get some practice and with people you don't feel threatened from. It helps if you are always polite. Being strong does not mean you have to necessarily be harsh. Believe in yourself - it is not possible that other people are always right so be fair to yourself - if you think you are right, hold on to that opinion. You are as valuable as a person as everybody else so that is a reason enough to not allow others to treat you with disrespect. Find your strengths, what gives you confidence and develop that even more. They are going to be your leverage - the things to balance your weaknesses and will raise your self-esteem every time you think somebody else is worth more tha you.
2007-02-16 05:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by petyado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strong and powerful decisions are OK ,but also make sure they are the right ones, which will not hurt or destroy others. Start with the minor ones and gradually move towards the major. Sticking to a decision is not always correct. Flexibility can sometimes be more effective.
2007-02-16 05:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by mama mia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never ever let go of your values and standards for anyone, no matter how tempting it seems. Believe in yourself and know that you one individual can make a change. Put you head up high and face the world with confidence as if you could do anything and everything. Believe in yourself for that is where your source of strength should come from! If you need guidance along the way look up in the sky and allow God to help you along the way! He might not make your decisions for you, but he will stand by you while you make them.
2007-02-16 04:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by Amy ;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y0u just need t0 stick t0 the decision you once made coz if you would keep thinking that may be it was wrong or if you had dne the other thing that would have been alot better then you would never be able t attain that strength.
2007-02-16 05:09:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask big bird from sesame street. She landed a role on TV and learned english even though she looks crazy and is 6 foot tall bird with human hands
2007-02-16 04:55:51 · answer #6 · answered by Crancrab1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well firstly u shud have confidence in ur self and in the decisions u make u shud be firm in our decisions but be careful not to make wrong decisions coz this can really harm u .u should believe in ur self and watever happens u shud always stand for the truth
2007-02-16 08:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by Aasma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all learn to believe in yourself and also learn to admire your strengths and realise your weaknesses and work to get over them. Listen to advises, learn to filter them as per your personality demands and then take your own independent decisions.
2007-02-16 06:49:02 · answer #8 · answered by baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in school & learn all you can. Work hard, build on your successes, and learn from your failures. Finish what you start & believe in God and the abilities he has given you. Good luck to you.
2007-02-16 05:39:53 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DECISIONS can not be strong, it should be firm & taken by what your heart say. Also it can not harm any one. Please try to live in present & positive, then you can achieve what you want in life.
2007-02-16 06:33:06 · answer #10 · answered by Nitin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY FRIEND.................To Dream Anything That U Want to Dream,Thats the Beauty of the "HUMAN MIND"., Remember To Do Anything That U Wanna Do,Thats the "STRENGTH Of the HUMAN WILL".,To "TRUST URSELF",to test ur limits,thats the...........Courage 2 succeed !!!
2007-02-16 05:12:55 · answer #11 · answered by riya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋