2007-02-15 19:16:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes definitely.
It is one of the ways of expressing your love towards your partner.
It is the most intimate bond you can share with your partner.
Other than understanding, loyalty, respect for each other, passion is also a very important ingredient in marriage... and sex is the best way of expression when it comes to expressing how passionately you love your partner....
2007-02-15 19:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him take a complete physical exam and have his hormone levels tested with the more detailed test. If he checks out ok, then read up on 'the MADONNA/whore complex' as he may have mental health issues since sex stopped with the arrival of your children. As to your question, if sex is necessary for you to feel complete in the marriage then yes it is necessary. If both of you were asexual (not interested) it would be different. But, since you have a normal sex drive, it will continue to be a source of dissatisfaction, until or unless he does something about HIS problem.
2016-05-24 06:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me the only thing that is important in the marriage is whether or not two people love each other unconditionally or not. The rest of it is of little importance. We arent all the same nor were we intended to be. Sex in one marriage is great, in the next its not a needed commodity. What is needed is that bond between two people. The bond that ties us together for life. tvtop_toptv
2007-02-15 19:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by Marsh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think sex is everything about marriage, but surely one of the important facts you need to consider. You and your partner may match emotionally and spiritually, but if you don't come together in sexual relationship then you will have some problem.
2007-02-15 19:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by I want to propose soon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say No. I, as a married woman think marriage is more of a spiritual and emotional bond having to do more with feelings of mutual respect, adoration, support, and trust. Sure, passionate love-making adds plenty to an already happy marriage, but I don't think it's ABSOLUTELY necessary in order for the married couple to be completely happy. If myself or my husband were to become disfigured or disabled to the point of being unable to have intercourse, I wouldn't become unhappy or miserable. I'm sure we'd find alternative ways to express sexual feelings for each other. ;) Now if one of us were gay, and not sexually attracted to each other (causing one of us to shutter at the thought of sex), the marriage wouldn't work. It would be best to stay best of friends as opposed to posing as legally bound, legitimized lovers. I'm sorry if I offended you with the "gay" portion of my answer but you didn't offer any specific circumstances with your question.
2007-02-15 19:32:07 · answer #5 · answered by Suz E. Home BAKER 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
not always there are very few exception but most of the normal relationships yes but ive heard and seen a couple being so busy with jobs life etc that when they do get to see each other its usally just for sleep but that how they want it so if both the guy and girl dont need nor want sex then as long as both agree it aint no big thing
2007-02-15 19:31:24 · answer #6 · answered by vamp_19772001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Sex is a BIG part of the marriage. Not the only thing; but without it marriage is not worth having.
2007-02-15 22:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If not having sex is what makes the relationship happy, then i would have to say no, not necessary. Unfortunatly, I don't know many people that don 't enjoy sex.
2007-02-15 19:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is only a part of marraige.. but sex is not everything..the real reason for sex is only to produce children.. what a marraige needss for it to be a happy one is understanding and love and trust between the husband and wife. there should not be ego between them and they must treat each other equally..sex is a part of married life.. but it is not the core and not the most important thing for a happy married life...
remember that a wife is not a prostitute who always gives sexual pleasure for free...
happy marraige needs love and trust between the spouses
2007-02-15 19:52:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, yes, yes! There is nothing more intimate and close than making love to the person you cherish. It's also a great stress buster and come on it's soooooooo nice !! :-)
2007-02-15 23:04:39 · answer #10 · answered by Sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋