finally got up the nerve to ask my crush(my trainer) to 'hang out". i text messaged him asking him that we should hang out soon and he text messaged me back ten minutes later...that he would, although it have to be the next time he gets paid because he's broke as a joke" quote on quote.. andas we conversated furthur he went on furthur to say that he's a shy guy when it comes to women because he's afraid or rejection.. I asked him does he fell confident enough to get with an attractive woman..and he said yes but usually and he's not in pursuit .. well, he said it depends what mood he's in...So I text messaged him about a job..he's suppossed to be hooking me up with get no return message,I even called ..no call
I know in the past he has invited me to his church group(but never came through on his invite)..and he invited me to workout with him(never followed through)..but he has told me that if I ever hang out to call him..so we can hit up a movie..so I did..
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2007-02-15 18:58:15 · 8 answers · asked by Lola M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He didn't decline my offer..he said he wanted to take me out when he gets paid..next week
2007-02-15 19:08:15 · update #1
well.I know he's said things to me in thepast like..why everytime I see you..you're leaving..am I ruining your gym experience" then there was another occasion and he told me that If you don;t want to be here you don't have too" and he asked me If I played sports and told me he wanted to play with me" so he was showing interest
2007-02-15 19:16:29 · update #2
Sorry to say that he might just not be that into you. :-(
I would back off and act like you aren't interested in seeing him socially. Sometimes just that alone is enough to make him think twice about declining your offer. If not, don't waste your time. Good for you for getting the courage to ask him out. Too bad he was too flakey to follow through. His loss. :-)
2007-02-15 19:03:26 · answer #1 · answered by wendysorangeblossoms 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is into you, but is being cautious because you turned him down so many times. Also you were a bit pushy sending him a job you think he should look into.
Lay back and the next time you two see each other or he contacts you act freindly and accept any dates he asks you on.
2007-02-16 03:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow he sounds like a moron....i think you got it right, it sounds like he's not into you as more than a friend. but even still he sounds like a lousy friend since he doesn't return your calls or follow through on plans. you could always get a new trainer, but i wouldn't initiate any more contact with him. you shouldn't be doing all that work for someone who doesn't seem to care.
2007-02-16 03:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by obliviona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt seem onterested in you and if he is you are gonna have to wait for his m ove. if he dont with in a reasonable time, lets say next 10 days. for get it. but dont tex him at all, dont call him anymore . lets see what he does. if nothing, let it go he isnt interested...dont chase him...in that respect anyways....
2007-02-16 03:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by flowerlegz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm to apathetic, though not enough to offend, read the whole thing. If you are even questioning whether he's "into" you or not, HE PROBABLY ISN"T! guys usually do not hesitate to do so.
2007-02-16 03:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by ARSEnal_will_never_WIN! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not interested in u atall , guys who r interested dont do things like this , leave him or he will break ur heart .
2007-02-16 03:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by guru ji 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u knew that he is a shy type , so make ur move
2007-02-16 03:40:08 · answer #7 · answered by stranger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him make the next move.....
2007-02-16 03:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by tumbleweed1954 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋