Personal Self Exile....?

Question

Hello people. i am 24 yr old deaf lonely guy and i have no friends and no relations with my cousins. I am really fed upf of my life living in India, and you know Indians treat deaf people like monsters. I am just wondering what if i move to another country where there's deaf friendly environment like europe or america? Do you think its possible for some1 who goes on self exile to another country and start a new life and meet new people and vow to never return to India for life? I just want to be happy and id ont want to be unhappy all my life! Help, give your suggestions.

Answer 1

Discrimination is a horrible thing. I'm an obese woman and I lived for over a year in country that values beauty- and obese is not beautiful. I was taunted, stared at, and harassed and found alcohol for comfort which just made me more miserable. So, I escaped to another country that also discriminates me- but to a lesser degree. I've accepted that I 'll always be fat and respect those who treat me as a person. If I'd stayed in the first country I would have died from depression. We can't change the world to understand our defects, we can only hope to find other places with better compassion and understanding. Leave if you can. The US is a wonderful place! Good luck!

Answer 2

Yes, definitely move out of India|

The people there treat others like total s*** |

Yes, get out of India and go to another country, you will be so much happier| (but don't move to an Islamic country, that would be going from the frying-pan into the fire)




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Answer 3

Did you ever read the play 'The Three Sisters' by Anton Checkov. One character, Andrei, is miserable, living isolated with his dull family and with no career or friends. He asks his friend, a doctor, what should he do. The doctor says. 'Walk away. Walk away and don't look back.' You might not find happiness overnight but you have to take the first step.