I am 20 years old. When I was younger I had a couple of sexual experiences with girls (kissing and oral sex) and identified myself as bisexual.Then I had a long term relationship with a guy, and it seems to be ending now. The whole time I have looked at girls, and thought about sexual things with them, but it doesnt come in the big rush like when I see a guy I am really attracted to. I suppose since I have never experienced sex with a woman I just dont know what to expect, since before Id had sex with a guy I just thought about kissing.
Today, I saw Vagina Monologues and if youve seen it, you know the intense lesbian scenes... Well as I listened it really turned me on, and reading lesbian erotica has the same effect, but threesome erotica doesnt turn me on, I dunno Ive always thought sex is for 2 people...
Anyhow, is it just overactive hormones or could this be the real, eternal me?
2007-02-15 18:31:44 · 5 answers · asked by Together 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First off, only you can say whether you're bisexual or not. Some people, both heterosexual and homosexual like to make pretty little "perfect," black-and-white catergories to put things in. The reality is that there is a spectrum with a lot of grey area and room to move. Some people may be exlusively homosexual or heterosexual while other may lean more in one direction than the other and there may also be people who feel they belong more in the middle.
Unfortunately I have yet to see the Vagina Monologues, I believe they're putting it on at my University so I should definately go. It does seem like you may be attracted to females and in that case maybe you should do some more expirementation. You definately don't want to feel stuck in a heterosexual relationship if you'd rather be with a woman.
2007-02-15 20:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mienk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there is no doubt you have strong sexul feelings for other girls. From..what you've told us it has been with you all along you have just managed to keep it under wraps so far. Threesomes are not for everyone so that's perfectly understandable. However...if you want to know for sure whether this is just a temporary thing or something you'd always like to have then there is only way to find out for sure. Either you can begin a relationship with another girl or meet someone at a bar or through personals and have a little hot affair where it's more physical than mental. The choice is up to you...but the more you keep it under control...the more bad for you in the long run as you may end up living a life you do not enjoy. So...you only get to be young once therefore enjoy it and go for it.
2007-02-16 07:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife has always wanted to be with a woman and she fatacises about it im totally ok with it and hope someday she can do it its pretty natural for woman to be attracted to woman i think it is very hot while we make love ill tell her its a girl doing her with a strap on she gets really into it
and reaches climax real fast
2007-02-16 11:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by hop on lets ride 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone likes hot girls. (Period)
Your instincts say guys, and you like them. Your interests like girls too.
Don't label yourself. Have sex with a few hot girls and see how things turn out.
2007-02-16 10:35:21 · answer #4 · answered by Santa Barbara 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, I do.
2007-02-16 08:10:18 · answer #5 · answered by kendra bryn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋