My son is three months old. I am feeling steadily more depressed every day. I know that I should go to the doctor but I just can't seem to go anywhere right now. I have never felt this bad before. Will this eventually go away by itself? Or will I have to get medical intervention. I love my son like crazy and take good care of him and play with him all day, but inside I am all crushed up and feel like someone else. I wish that I could just snap myself out of it and get back to my old self.
2007-02-15 18:13:46 · 13 answers · asked by Queen B 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
You must go to the dr. It will only get worse if you don't.
2007-02-15 18:17:13 · answer #1 · answered by Pamelab 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are depressed and you are right in thinking that you should go to the doctor, not only for your own health, but the health of your family. Especially if you feel you are worsening every day. Post partum depression is common and with treatment which includes anti-depressants, you will feel much better and will enjoy your son that much more. It may eventually go away without your seeking treatment, but do you want to risk getting really really sick? In order to be able to care for your baby, you must take care of yourself! Good luck, and know that you are not alone in how you are feeling. It will pass with the right medication regimen.
2007-02-19 16:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by melissa j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal to get depressed after birth, but 3 months is a very long time and it will continue to get worse until you get to a point you can't even get out of bed and take care of your son. I know you just want to stay in, but you really need to go to the doctor!! it could get to a point you may harm yourself or your baby!! (that is unfortunately common). so for your health and your son's GET TO A DOCTOR!! you really need it and you will thank yourself that you did! and your son will also be a happier baby since they do pickup how to act from you and if you are emitting a sad feeling all the time, they subtly pick that up and can adopt that behavior which you don't want!! please, go to the doctor, you will really help yourself and your son more than you know. be safe and god bless!
2007-02-15 21:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by lynn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are experiencing post-partum depression and it's extremely common, more than most are aware of. So first things first, don't beat yourself up for the way you feel and don't resign yourself to the feeling that things will always be this way. You need support and someone to listen. There are lots of people that you can turn to and even though it's difficult you should not shut yourself off from outside contact. Call someone in the mental health profession who can help you. This is temporary and the sooner you conquer it the sooner you will be able to really enjoy your baby. I do envy you. Hear that? I envy you. Please, find someone to talk to. It will really help. Good luck to you and your baby and God bless....
2007-02-15 18:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this your first baby? I was overwhelmed with my first child. It is very diffucult. Your body is adjusting to getting back to normal its been through a lot already. If u are really concerned then i suggest u go talk to your doc and let them know how u are feeling . It could be the baby blues. You will be alright and u will survive.......but defintily see your doc. or they have crisis lines you can call to talk to someone if u feel that depressed. Get some help for yourself and your baby.
2007-02-19 16:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by spacelee666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really do need to go to the doctor. This is easily treated with medication. Also, try to make sure that you are taking care of yourself. Get up, do your hair, get dressed, a little make-up, you know do things that will make you feel better. Chances are that will not snap out of it. You need to get help. Alot of women go thru this
2007-02-15 23:41:49 · answer #6 · answered by cinnycinda 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you do have to go to the doc. It is post-partum depression & is very common. I had it too. Part of it is that the chemicals in your brain have changed during pregnancy & are not there now. The med's you'll get will replace those that are missing. Part of being a good mom is taking care of yourself. Don't forget that you are important and worth taking care of. Be good to yourself & go to the doc. Let him/her prescribe something for you & TAKE it, as directed. You WILL feel better, hon.
Good luck & take care.
2007-02-15 18:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by sweetsinglemom 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Postpartum depression is a complex mix of physical, emotional, and behavioral changes that occur after giving birth that are attributed to the chemical, social, and psychological changes associated with having a baby.
You really should see your doctor, as he can help you.
Good Luck!
2007-02-15 18:18:58 · answer #8 · answered by Tenn Gal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really think that you need to see a doctor. It is completely normal to have the feelings that you do but the only way you are going to get better is by getting help.
2007-02-15 18:17:46 · answer #9 · answered by Sakora 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear it's called postnatal depression.But there are some other worries too.You know relationship difficulties,economic pressures, and these kinda things.It's good that you come forward with such a problem.But go to the doctor now,ring and make an appointment.
2007-02-15 18:26:49 · answer #10 · answered by uncoolmom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to the Doctor as soon as you can, whether you feel like it or not. Post-Partum (spelling?) Depression shouldn't last this long. I think it being winter time and being stuck in the house gets to me too. Play your favorite music, light scented candles, do something to make you feel better, even if it's eating a whole tub of cool-whip!
2007-02-15 18:23:04 · answer #11 · answered by Mt ~^^~~^^~ 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋