Do you ever think about an ex you broke up with and wish you never did??? Did you feel you made a mistake?
2007-02-15 17:50:48 · 9 answers · asked by maria s 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Every day. You should see the creep I ended up with.He makes my ex seem like prince charming.
2007-02-15 17:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by Ker Bear 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes and Yes...my childhood sweetheart
I went back to her and we had a kid. Then i left her then went back to her and had another kid ... this continued until we had quite a few more ... then the last time i went back we thought we'd take a chance and marry ... even now i'm wondering if i made a mistake ... because i'm thinking of the OTHER women
Moral of the story is ... it doesnt matter what relationship you get into, you'll always have second thoughts about what could have been.
Fact of life is, that you make life and your relationship what you want it to be no matter who you're with. You may always have those negative thoughts especially when things are bad. But overcoming them TOGETHER helps you grow and mature as a person and strengthens your relationship.
Those who fail to overcome these relationship problems can be doomed to repeat the same mistakes because they will find the same problems in any relationship.
Success and happiness in the relationship takes BOTH of you to work hard at it. What would definately help is compatability and love.
2007-02-16 01:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by Truth D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think most ppl DO. I think we are engaged in some sort of
POST-FANTASY idea of "what might have been?"
The break-up happened, and perhaps it ended when it should not have.
But realize that "What you wanted" and "What you got" are two entirely different things.
If being re-united is a possibility, I say GO FOR IT, and it will not take long @ ALL from that point to know whether or not your mind was playing FANTASY idealism games on you.
Relationships take WORK. COMPROMISE. and TRUST. If you are in a matter of speaking; "PLAGUED" by this memory of this person; u may want to pursue it. BUT I strictly DO NOT ADVOCATE doing thus if the person is dating already, or is MARRIED.
Good luck and GOD BLESS!
^7sEVEn7^
2007-02-16 01:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by º§€V€Nº 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, but i never think it was a mistake. Usually in a moment like that I miss one of their qualities which I'm lacking in my current life or relationship.
2007-02-16 02:12:53 · answer #4 · answered by Gist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a common we have to understand each other if any think happens to broke with ex that time we should shot our month.& silent for 10,minutes.Only think is we have pass that bad time.
2007-02-16 02:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by B A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i know i did the best thing for me at the time. But sometimes i think i might of tried a little harder now that i am a little older i would have done things different.
2007-02-16 02:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by CHAEI 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah this is what happens with everyone. i got with my ex than broke up and now i want to get back with her
2007-02-16 01:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by egg 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
no
2007-02-16 01:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by karen v 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
NEVER!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-16 01:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by nadalalex 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋