im not bad looking at all, im picky but SOOO SHY!! what can i do
2007-02-15 17:45:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I am sure this is true, though not sure of the reasons why. Get a girl, any girl. Other girls are attracted to you because they see someone else took a chance on you.
Have some standards, but remember this is dating and not marriage. You'll make some mistakes but none will be permanent. Good luck!
2007-02-15 17:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by Charlie Kicksass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try those phone chat lines that advertise on TV. People who want to meet other people call those lines. I've had some interesting positive experiences from meeting people I originally met on those chat lines. It costs money for guys to call, but girls get to call free. Some people on those are looking for a serious relationship, some are just looking for fun, and some are just looking for people to hang out and go bowling and stuff with. You can use a fake name if you want. The most challenging part will be making your profile. It involves making a public message for others to hear where you describe yourself and what you're looking for. It can be a challenge for shy folks to 'sell themselves' like that, but doing it really will help you become less inhibited.
2007-02-15 17:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being picky is acceptable. of course! everybody wanted the best out of their life but u could try to work on ur shyness because frankly saying ,in the end , without any effort on ditching ur shyness would left u suffering with regrettable misery.just remember that a girlfriend is a normal human being after all and there's no harm posed at you when asking her to be your girlfriend. the worse that could be is that she refused. whether she object you politely or aggressively , just remember...don't sweat it out. its not worth it. the other time when you meet her, act as cool as u can and always think that the humiliation that u had experienced when u confessed to her the other time isn't going to control you and ur emotions coz that is what we call LIFE..its not always about happiness and satisfaction you know. boost ur confidence and build up ur self esteem by reading motivation books and simply to try to see matter in an easy scope. i know it's easy said than done but people can only give u encouraging words but the one whose making the changes and decision is you. get out of ur cocoon of shyness and get a breathe of new life by changing ur attitude. its not as if u are proposing a queen and most important...it doesn't kill you..all the best of luck to you!!!.
2007-02-15 18:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by danzelolic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds familiar!
Firstly, stop being picky. Take a girl friend - any. Take another. Get experience with girls. You will grow out of your shyness. Then you can start being a bit more choosey
2007-02-15 17:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by Bunts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What places are you going to meet women? I think that matters alot. Don't go to a bar. Go some place where you will have something in common so you will have something to talk about.
2007-02-15 17:51:54 · answer #5 · answered by jlily680 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have a girlfriend but you have to think.Are you living peacefully form your income.If yes you have to select you GF like too.
2007-02-15 18:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by B A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you're not past high school, please don't waste your time finding other things to do than to study for your bright future. But if you're already past high school, then CARPE DIEM. Sieze the day! Take chances
2007-02-15 18:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by mr x krazy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start as a fren n b urself
2007-02-15 18:05:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, it will happen when the time is right.
2007-02-15 17:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by maria s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋