Why is it that I never find a true friend in my entire life?And is it my fault that my loyal,friendly,sweet,jolly,naive,too straightforward attitude is always an outcast type of attitude in this society?Someone else will only talk to me coz they only have pity on me or they will only needs help or ask fro something.Also,Whenever I'm the one who is always opening up something,I feel like I'm always talking to my self-like.Is it wrong also that all my action,words,deeds,thinking are all entirely different to everyone else??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????It really upsets me so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!What should I do now ????????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-15 17:44:27 · 12 answers · asked by unhealty teenager 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
People mistake your kindness for weakness and by human nature they feel better about themselves when they mistreat people who are weaker than them.
2007-02-15 17:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing nobody wonts to hear the truth. They don't wont to be around you because you may say something that will get them in trouble with there other Friend because there pretending to be something there not .They have no pity on you they are in need . When you open a can of worms it scares them . When your talking they here you but have no idea of what your talking about because they are so ignorant they have nothing to say . So your different . What should you do now ? keep bragging and stay happy
2007-02-15 18:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is something you should be proud of.
Being unique is awesome.
You have an inner connection with yourself, and feel unique. I feel almost the same way you do. I do have some true loyal friends, but that is because they are very very very nice, giving people. We are in business together, but I am not going to get into that.
The only problem you are having is that you are becoming upset that you are not like everyone else.
Enjoy it, and keep at it!
2007-02-15 17:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparantly the people that want to talk to you about their feelings, must think you're a very understanding and sympathetic person, or they wouldn't unload on you. Maybe you just feel they're not listening to you? I'm sure there will be someone who will come along that will be just as understanding for you. Alot of times, also, when you have problems, you feel no one understands, even though they're listening.
2007-02-15 17:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALWAYS be urself! someone in the world will LOVE ur personality! try asking someone if u can join them or look for someone that needs a friend too. if theyre really geeky and u really wanted friends u wouldnt care. sometimes ppl MAKE themselves SEEM like loners when they really arent. somday at lunch look for a really nice group of ppl and build up the courage to say can i sit if they say yes, let them get to no u. ull find making and veing friends isnt always hard.
2007-02-15 17:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by i luv u, tho u broke my heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to be friends with yo self first b4 being friendly with other pepo.Alot of my galfrends ask me y i happen to have a lot of frends,even those there dont talk to reasons best known to them, my secret is accepting each person just the way there are.i know who to tell my dip thoughts cuz i know how true there are to me,i also know what to say to pepo who cant keep a secret.
2007-02-15 17:58:02 · answer #6 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think more positively. Instead of thinking "I can NEVER find a friend" and then feeling down and out... try telling yourself "I'm a great person and people like me" and make yourself feel happy. I know it sounds stupid... but it works. Think positively attract positivity and positive experiences. Think negative attract negative experiences.
2007-02-15 17:57:37 · answer #7 · answered by Haulie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you worry too much.friends or are you looking for best friends? everyone you meet might have a conversation with you. how terrible.
2007-02-15 17:50:47 · answer #8 · answered by cindy m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seem to feel the same way. We must attract really selfish people.
2007-02-15 17:48:40 · answer #9 · answered by friday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a nice person,dont change yourself.But dont let anyone take you for granted.
2007-02-15 17:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋