Why is it that I never find a true friend in my entire life?And is it my fault that my loyal,friendly,sweet,jolly,naive,too straightforward attitude is always an outcast type of attitude in this society?Someone else will only talk to me coz they only have pity on me or they will only needs help or ask fro something.Also,Whenever I'm the one who is always opening up something,I feel like I'm always talking to my self-like.Is it wrong also that all my action,words,deeds,thinking are all entirely different to everyone else??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????It really upsets me so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!What should I do now ????????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-15 17:44:10 · 9 answers · asked by unhealty teenager 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
What do you enjoy doing?
Any hobbies? Figure out what you enjoy doing and take a class at your community college or center, other people who like that stuff will also be there and you will have a common ground to start from. Try the cliched adage that we have two ears and one mouth so we can listen twice as much as we talk.
2007-02-15 17:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sara 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok, try to first define what is ,"True". you should be clear, first of all, of your own ideals.
Try to recall the moments with persons you felt really relaxed. Having done that analyse that person and his qualities that made you felt good.Once clear about that try to keep company of only this kind of people and avoid all others.
Secondly, u r not different, u r unique and special. u no need to be like others,others should be like u. teach them how to behave and live. u can change their lives for a better ones.
Thirdly, u may have some intellectual capacity(as u can see life from distance), use it. writers are the best friends one can ever have in this world.
Forthly, do you have a sweetheart. if no, do have one. it will turn your life on.
Fifthly, use Yahoo.it is a world for different people. here people with new ideas excel.
Sixthly,i don't know.
2007-02-15 18:28:22 · answer #2 · answered by alone in 6billion 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As a person your actions will be different what you have to look for is for people who accept you as you are; isn't right to do things just to like to the people and any ways, that's something you'll never gonna do completely there's always some one who won't like you doesn't matter how hard you try. If some day you need to e-mail someone feel free to e-mail me, take care and enjoy life, look around and try to find someone, we aren't completely alone, some times we just don't look in the right place.
2007-02-15 17:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by Javy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because you are diffrent doesn't make you impossible to befriend. But it sounds like you have some interesting ideas, perhaps your too focused on yourself and it's difficult to like people who are either egotistical or who are constantly upset with themselves and are vocalizing their problems some tips I have for making friends are
1 Be positive, people enjoy positive people, they have their own problems and want to hear your good news, not your bad. Problems are to be shared with close friends after a relationship is formed, not from the get go, it's a turn off.
2 Diffrent is good but don't expect everyone to accept it. Everyone is allowed unique opinions, but don't force those unique opinions on others, if you over extend yourself into working too hard to be diffrent, you seperate yourself from everyone else and make it easy for them to exclude you on the basis of wierdness.
3 Find people who think like you. When I was younger I found that I too was often "wierd" the "strange" kid, but through investigation I discovered that I wasn't completely original and there were likeminded individuals out there who liked the same things I did. Your particular group might not be large, but if you look you will find people who will accept you. Don't try to force yourself into a crowd that doesn't if you fit it will happen naturally and belive me, if you look you will find somewhere to fit.
2007-02-15 17:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by nemsethcszardescu 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All any one can do is accept them selves no matter what mistakes they may have made and go on and try to enjoy their life. If others don't like you then just try to think well of yourself. Most people feel this way at some point in their life.
2007-02-15 17:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are kindred spirits around just like you. I feel the same way. Sometimes, I think it's because most people really have low IQ's. Really listen to those around you and you may feel very alone. We give because it is the right thing to do. Others tend to take because of selfish reasons,and so it goes.
2007-02-15 17:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by firestarter 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well the same thing hapen to me but it was wit my so called friend that i was tryin to hel[ but then she got an attude but any ways best thing you can do is write it down in a journal and think about and come up wit different point of views
2007-02-15 17:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by </33 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, call the wambulance! someone is having a pity party! wah!
2007-02-15 17:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by Forever 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ugh. i have gone through all of those things! i don't like to feel like that. anyway. just be you and maybe... just maybe you will be able to find a person that is like an actual person instead of a robot. :\ i dunno. thats just me.
2007-02-15 17:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by K C M J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋