Would you be angry if your husband still spoke to his highschool sweetheart?

Answer 1

It would depend on his intentions and hers. I would not like it if they were having long conversations on the regular basis, but if it was just innocent and they were just keeping in touch it wouldn't really be a big deal.

Answer 2

Oh for Pete's Sake, that is SOOOOO High School! Let him speak to his high school sweetheart for goodness sake. It he wanted HER, he would not have married you. Talking is one thing. Spending all his time with her is another story. Invite her over to your home or go do something, the three of you (get another guy to go along if you can) - point is, get to know her. Then you will be in a better position to see if she is a threat or not. Above all, trust your husband. One of the biggest turnoffs for a man is when a woman doesn't trust him and another is when she lacks self-esteem/confidence. Hold your head up high, girl, and if you act like there is nothing to worry about, your husband (and his former sweetheart) will get the idea that there had better not be anything to worry about.

Answer 3

Thats a tough one.
If your relationship with your husband is a strong one and you trust each other, then I would say no reason to be angry. There are some people that although they have broken up with their sweethearts...they remain friends. This friendship is stronger than the actual relationship. The best thing you could do is perhaps become friendly with her also...and then she can become a family friend. To try and have him stop talking with her could only lead to disaster...as he will think you are jealous and this isnt going to strenghten your and his relationship either. But, I would watch it closely without him knowing to make sure that this friendship remains the way it should be...only a friendship.

Answer 4

It would depend on the situation. Have they been friends for a long time with nothing happening? Has your husband cheated before? How long has it been since they dated? There would be a lot of factors that would determine how I feel about the situation.

Answer 5

Well, he is YOUR husband and im sure hes just talking to her as a friend. and you shouldnt be angry @ him just because that WAS his sweetheart. just be glad that he chose you! he wouldve asked his sweetheart to marry him instead of you! but he's in love with you so im sure he wont cheat on you!

Answer 6

Uh, yeah!!! Maybe they r really goog friends now but when I got maried I gave up all of my guy friends and my husband gave up all of his girl friends, we're married and neither one of us wants to think about the other one out with someone of the opposite sex, not because we don't trust each other but we both r one the same page, and only with each other.

Answer 7

It depends on what they talk about. Have you ever asked? If they talk about back when they dated, the yeah of course you should be angry, but if they are legitamately just friends, then apart from your jealousy, (don't worry, I can relate) there shouldn't be anything wrong with that.

Answer 8

I am real cool with my ex-wife, love her new kids to death, go to lunch every now and then, she' like my best friend, We know each other so much. But if you were with me would you be mad? That's a situation that you have watch. You can't let the love you have for him BLIND you ether. I can tell by way someone looks and talks. If they like each other.

Answer 9

If he was whispering sweet nothings in her ear, taking her out for coffees and the like, then yes, I'd be annoyed, not angry. But if it is innocent friendship, then no.

Answer 10

I guess it depends on the situation. If they remained friends before he married me, I would think it's none of my business, as long as they are behaving in a platonic way. If he or she rekindled the relationship after we were married, I'd wonder why.