2007-02-15 17:38:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I was in your SAME boat for a few years....every sex partner I had..never satisfied me...atleast not until my last boyfriend and not my husband. you need lube first and foremost. then...you need to relax and be completely comfortable with him...if you are not comfortable and relaxed it will NEVER Happen. you cant want it soo much. what works best for me and my hubby is if we have foreplay...then he gets on top..then after a few min of him on top I get on top. that usually does the trick for me. but your cant just get on and ride. dorry if this is alittle graphic..but you need to stimulate your clit. so when you are ontop you need to rub it on him while you do your thing :) it took me a few months to get completely comfortable with my husband before it happened. and it was very depressing and got to the point where I didnt even want to have sex because I didnt see the point. why would I want to do that..if I am not getting anything out of it. then one day BAM! it happened and things have been wonderful every since...best of luck to you!! )OH YEA! and what worked best for me for a LONG time...was one of the rings that fo on the guys penis with a vibrating thing on it to stimulate you!! its WONDERFUL! works best for girl on top position....so go get one of those and some lube and have fun!
2007-02-15 18:08:37 · answer #1 · answered by gigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest lubrication. They have many more products now a days. KY Jelly brand has a lot. The warming lube is fun! Try incorporating sex toys into sex. Some women have orgasms other ways, like clitoral stimulation and such. Experament and have fun with it
2007-02-16 02:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by K McD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't found the right person to tickle your fancy or knows what they are doing. I had sex for almost 10 years before I found someone that knew what they were doing, For the dry part, get a lubricant, you are not alone in that area
2007-02-16 10:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by ma 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your partner does not provide enough sensual foreplay. Sex is about a lot more than stick it in and go. There needs to be lots of cuddling and caressing and licking........try some lubricant
2007-02-16 02:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some different lubes! Perhaps once wet you would enjoy this! However the dryness as you call it could be caused by nervous tension .
2007-02-16 07:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your partner is circumcised that would cause you to dry out quicker so use lubrication like KY.
2007-02-16 12:02:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are sex therapists, I advise you consult one.
2007-02-16 01:53:12 · answer #7 · answered by Josephine 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋