When I first asked the girl to marry me she refused, I tried again, the second time she agreed. When discussing the future plans, she was more interested in my ethical behavior, and my property. She has not yet told me “I love you,” neither expressed in any way. However she agreed to marry me. Does she love me or no?
Your comments would be HELPFUL
Thanks
2007-02-15 17:36:14 · 7 answers · asked by Saadi H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think shes a gold digger. If you really want to know, get one of your chick friends to be friends with her, or get to know her chick friends. Have them give you information. You could always ask her about it, but the only problem is she could lie to you.
2007-02-15 17:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My comment is: do NOT marry this person. You are headed for disaster. She does not love you. Do not think that a marriage can survive on one person loving the other with not much coming back in return. You will be making a very, very huge mistake that will cost you years of your life.
2007-02-15 17:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by Esther 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sorry but it doesnt sound like she loves you... you obviously are on different levels as you proposed and she cant even say i love you. she could be either in 3 ruts, the i just want to have sercurity rut, the money rut or the i love him but to scared to say it rut... see which one she is in... if she can look you in the eyes and cares for you and shows some emotion of love towards you them she is just scared. if she doesnt fuss over anything you do and when you try to make things romantic and she kills the mood then she doesnt love you and isnt fussed with making you happy. now you can still marry her and you be happy but if she doesnt love you chances are she will like someone else and cheat. as she doesnt care about your heart. you need to ask her! if she doesnt want to talk about it then try and she how she reacts to what you say. she doesnt sound like the right person for you sorry! good luck
2007-02-15 17:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by young, hot, and Aussie! (chick) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so she is a material woman
the way u put it sound slike she doesnt love but only want a good life guaranteed thats all and women who do that usually cheat,, so i say u give it time and see how anxious is she about the wedding
2007-02-15 17:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could she love you for more than just security? do you have more than lust to offer a woman? because after stretch marks and screaming children love means much more.she could be looking out for number one.
2007-02-15 17:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by cindy m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She loves your money and not you. Find someone who loves you for YOU.
2007-02-15 18:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not decide in haste.
2007-02-15 17:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋