The vet told me and I know.. I bought her as a 8- year old and I have had her for for 7 years. I know I have to do it, but I'm crying as I'm typing. There is nothing more I can do, I would appreciate some encouraging words for my dreadful day ahead.
2007-02-15 17:31:54 · 18 answers · asked by Ayla B 4 in Pets ➔ Other - Pets
It's really hard. I had to put down three geriatric animals in one year once due to quality of life issues, had spent fortunes for years on various medicines and treatments but the time eventually came.
While this is happening Saturday your role will be to calm and comfort her as you send off your friend. I held all of mine in my arms while they passed and as hard as it was I know me being there holding them comforted them.
Keep reminding yourself that you are doing the right thing and that your friend is grateful to you for the years you had together.
Have friends and/or family available to support you afterward if you need it, and be gentle and indulgent of yourself.
I'm shedding a few tears here myself, be calm and comforting for her and save your grieving for after. It's very hard but you will be ok and you will always know that you did what is right for your friend.
2007-02-15 17:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that alot of the answers to this question have sterotyped people in the industry. It is terrible news, all of it! The horses death and the fact that it will slowly ruin the industry as it has in Australia. Jumps racing is only allowed in 2 Australian states and unless the death stats are kept down and betting and attendance up than it will get canned all together. And thankfully the industry is doing all it can to keep the sport going. An international investigation into the sport needs to be done, to make it safer! There are alot of factors that affect the game, breeding, tracks, jumps etc. As we are all facing the same fate if something isnt done! Unfortunately there are quite a few bad eggs in the industry that do do it all for the greed, but there are too many people involved that do love horses and the game to paint the whole industry with that brush!! I've worked in the industry for a fair while now and cant think of anyone in particular I know that is doing it for the greed, it costs way to much money!!! We love horses and we love racing! Also its not "greed" that is saying this but in most cases it is not commercially justifiable to keep a horse with a broken leg, and as harsh as that sounds that is how the industry works. It does work with money and well we cant have horses sitting in paddocks doing nothing and we cant always put a horse in a position where they can live life like that! Some people may think those comments are hypocritical but its hard to truly understand unless you work in this industry, and I found that out myself.
2016-05-24 05:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I am very sorry for your pending loss. I have been around horses all my life and I must say that many times I think I prefered their companship to people. When you have a good honest horse you will find no more a loyal friend. I will try to give you a bit of advice that has always helped me deal with the loss of a good horse, and in my life I have seen many come and go. When it has been a very close and dear horse I personally have found it a bit better to be alone with the horse a few minutes and I myself would administer the injection. I know that not always can we all do that. But for me it was like I always cared for them and looked after them and they relied on me and trusted me and I was not going to let some stranger put them down, I felt I owed that to them. Also just remember that your horse was a very lucky to have had a master as caring and loyal as you are to her. You have been blessed and lucky in return by her loyalty to you. That seven years may not seem like much in a life time but just remember that is seven years for you and her that no one will ever be able to take from you, the good times and the bad. As long as you live she will live on in your mind with all the memories of the times shared together. And you know what I just really think that the Good Lord is a bit of a coboy at heart and has a special range for a remuda of good honest horses. She will be with all the others gone before and all the cowboys there will take good care of her until you go to claim her back one day. Know that she will be ready for another good ride when that day comes. I think they will graze her on belly high clover and never spend a day with another spur to touch their hide. Do not be sad for her as she will be free forever, we will still be here to have to strugle through life as it is.
I would think her whole goal inlife for being here was to make you a bit happier each day you had with her, I think she fulfilled that goal very well.
Again I am sorry for your loss and you will be inour prayers this weekend.
2007-02-15 19:48:32 · answer #3 · answered by Lee @ LBH Ranch 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetie i am crying with you. I love horses also. But look its the best you can do..at least the poor baby wont be in any more pain. Look ahead sweetie. There are some more horses out there looking for a sweet person to adopt them. I know there will never be another like the one you had .... but you have to go on. I have had my cats that i have had put down.. Its like losing a part of you family. The hurt is real.. but the hurt will lessen as time goes. I am sorry about your mare.. I am sorry about your pain. I am sorry that you are having this tough time in your life. But it will get easier for you. Dont jump into anything till you feel the time is right. As in getting another mare to take her place. Take time to grieve. Will be thinking about you. Kitty.
2007-02-15 17:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am so very sorry to hear about your mare being put down. Just try to think of it this way. You gave her 7 years of unconditional love and gave her good care as well. I know how it feels to loose some one or some thing that you love and adore so much.When Barbaro, the Kentucky Derby winner was put down. I actually sat here in tears. I followed the updates on him every day. Although I didn't know Barbaro, my heart was broken because he touched my life and heart so much.
You are doing the right thing for your mare. She will no longer be in pain and won't be suffering either. I'm sure your heart will mend, in time. Crying is the best way to deal with the emotional feelings you are having right now. Your heart will mend and you will have wonderful memories of your mare. God bless, take care. I hope this helped you in your time of grief.
2007-02-15 17:43:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sad for you and your horse. I don't know of a pet owner that hasn't been in this situation and it never gets any easier. Just remember you are ending her pain and suffering from this horrible disease and if she could decide for herself she would do the same thing. And remember that one day you will meet with her again and both will be happy and healthy and spend your days together in green pastures. I'm so sorry for you I know what a hard decision this is to make for our four legged pet's the only fault that they have is that they don't live as long as we do. Remember the good times and that you are doing the unselfish thing and ending her pain the most important thing is that you always carry her memory in your heart. Will be thinking of you and your beloved horse on Saturday, and i am sorry for your loss.
Fellow animal lover
2007-02-15 18:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by Katprsn 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It is very painful to let go. I understand. I rescued a kitten from when he was just a few weeks old and he lived until he was 16. I was crying months before because I saw him aging and knew it would be inevitable. You have given her a good life and she loves you too. But it is time for her to go and have a good rest. You will remember how much you loved her and do even better with the next pet you have. That's how you will make sure her life was not in vain. She has taught you to love horses and be a better owner to the next one that comes your way. Our pets do not know the concept of the future. They only live in the present. Let her last memory be of her falling in a delicious painless sleep with you caressing her muzzle. Good luck and be strong. It is the right thing to do..
2007-02-15 17:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by aken 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's never easy to put down an animal that you love.
Your horse has trusted you to take care of her for many years. Unfortunately, this sometimes includes euthanasia.
Several years ago, I saw a poem, supposedly from a dog, about it's life with its owner. It ended by saying "When the time comes that I'm not enjoying life and are in constant pain, I know that your love for me will help you do what's needed to give me peace."
2007-02-15 22:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by ckm1956 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry and the loss of an animal friend is always devastating. Think about the good times you hd with her and because she's sucha wonderful horse she doesn't deserve to suffer. She'll at least be with God in a happier place. I really hope I helped and I know how terrible losing an animal is so I really wish you luck and strength and I know you'll get through this. (Sorry for your loss)
2007-02-16 04:44:04 · answer #9 · answered by Horse crazy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No doubt you provided her a very good life for the last 7 years. I don't doubt that she too knows that her time is up, and she probably wishes that you would just continue to always love her, and hold her memory close to your heart. I'm sure she is aware of your deep sadness, but would rather not spend her last days seeing you so heartbroken. Send her out the way I myself would want, which is with happiness, love and fond memories, not with sadness and regrets that the time together could not be longer.
2007-02-15 17:46:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋