2007-02-15 17:17:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No! I appreciate that you stepped up for it and spoke your mind. Sometimes you have to be honest. I hope he does too. Suggest some examples that could stimulate you and him in a positive manner.
2007-02-15 17:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by shkabaj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have the right idea--communications--there is a problem--talk it out---except you might have not said it in a very nice way or at an appropriate time---the old saying is that there is a time and place for everything. If you want to spice things up--fine--but look at the toatal picture...age, health, stress, they are just some of the reasons passion leaves for a while. Hopefully you two can talk about it and work the issues out. it is never too late.
2007-02-16 01:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very wrong. This makes the poor man lose confidence in himself. Now you have him thinking depressingly if someone else will take his place. Now he doesn't know what to do. His self-confidence has attentuated and he might not even want to touch you anymore, and even if he does, just the fact that he's boring, he will try to avoid you. Heck, you might even cause him to seek another woman who will cherish his sexual pleasuring...
I know this guy who only can serve his woman just for 5 minutes, even less than that, and his wife is so happy with him, even though they only have sex once a month,l and these two are young people, 24 and 27, but the guy is physically challenged. But these two live a very ultimate life, and I doubt if anyone can break them apart...
2007-02-16 01:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it was. Now hes going to feel like your cheating and not wont you anymore .Most likely in time hes going to have an affair to see if he still has it .Don't you have any feeling. Was it that easy for you to make a man feel like a little worthless mouse? . Why didn't you do something to spice it up ?Or was it easier to point the finger ? Maybe your to blame did you ever think of that?
What do you do in bed that's so great ?
I think you owe that man a nice oil massage while your watching x flicks rub your body slowly over his body make yourself hot while he watches you take his hand and and put it between your legs now start slowly moving up and down wile holding his hand there . Get the picture it takes two
2007-02-16 01:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe you spoke to him in the wrong tone! you have to know that each of you have to communicate well so that the other party understands what you are saying, and not offending him. from your question, i know that you want to speak to your husband on how to improve your sex life.but the way you spoke may have sent the wrong signal to him,making him think that you are insulting him! both of you should sit down and have a nice talk.
2007-02-16 01:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by HumanBeingOnEarth! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hurt his ego; nothing wrong with that. Oh. but this is your husband who you love; so hurting him is not an issue. Would have been better if you had said to him that you would like to try something different.. He might have been interested, but, right now he is probably too hurt. Nice going.
2007-02-16 01:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by leaving.florida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with saying that. It was wrong of you however, to say sex with the "other"man in you life is hot and sinful
2007-02-16 03:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not wrong BUT if you are going to be blunt and honest you better be ready to step up with some suggestions on how to make it better and you better be ready to be the one who makes the first move to make it happen.
2007-02-16 07:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as women we need to tell our husbands our true fillings but maybe we should be more tackful and made suggestion to what would make it better and show intrest in trying new things i always tell my hubby what i want and what i dont like he is understanding and will to keep me happy
2007-02-16 01:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are communicating with him!!!
That is one thing lacking in partnerships these days I feel.
Good on you for speaking up.
At least now he can do something positive about it.
2007-02-16 01:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by Billy T 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋