2007-02-15 16:37:41 · 23 answers · asked by Natalie s 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yes we can be friends with both
friends can be like brothers in sister in our family of friends
where our lover is a lot different
2007-02-15 16:46:02 · answer #1 · answered by Zara3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All friends have varying interests... of course lesbians and straight girls can be friends. that would be like asking if a health conscious vegan and a dairy eating chocoholic can be friends. Well.... uh.... yeah. The vegan just doesn't eat what the chocoholic eats... and the lesbian doesn't **** who the straight girl ****s. Ain't nothin but a thang. Just b/c a woman is a lesbian doesn't mean she finds ALL other women attractive nor does every straight woman fear what a gay woman thinks (nor should she). Though I'll tell you, the right lesbian can be rather persuasive. (I should know... was straight all my life till a lesbian "friend" rocked my world at 31.)
2007-02-16 19:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont understand how people an be so naive. It doesnt matter whether you are gay or straight...the one thing we all have in common are we are all human beings. Your sexual orientation doesnt matter when forming friendships....I am a straight woman, but I have male friends...I have female friends too, so why would it be any different for a person who is gay. Gay people have all the needs straight people do...there is no difference at the emotional level...the only thing different between a gay person and a straight person is a gay person like to be intimate with someone of the same sex...thats all....it doesnt define who she/he is based on their sexual preferences....we are all people and who we enjoy in the bedroom is nobody elses business.
2007-02-15 17:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'm a straight woman who has gay men & a few lesbian friends
2007-02-15 16:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by gitsliveon24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well by your "Puritan" cawl, I'd assume you aren't really up to date with typical social customs.
Let me inform you that yes, lesbians and straight women can and are friends. My Mom's straight and we're the best of friends!
I have several straight female friends and NOT once have I ever "come on to" any of them. Besides, they're not my type.
2007-02-15 16:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Especially if your straight friends are comfortable with their sexuality. Most of my friends have been straight. I've never really had many lesbian friends because most of the ones I have been around are such drama queens and so trifling; hitting on your girlfriend behind your back; behind their girlfriends back. I hate that crap.
2007-02-15 17:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by tmills883 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 11:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I were set up by my best friend, who happens to be a lesbian. She and I have known each other for 11 years and I am proud to call her my best friend. I don't pick my friends for their sexual preferences. I pick my friends because of what I see that is true in their hearts.
2007-02-15 16:59:59 · answer #8 · answered by tamminator2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am friends with a lot of "straight" women. I sleep with some of them too.
;)
2007-02-15 21:40:02 · answer #9 · answered by Alias400 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friends are gays/lesbians, and I'm not. So yes we can be friends.
I don't know why we all can't accept people for who they are and who the decied to be with.
2007-02-15 16:50:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah- its totally fine!!!!
I mean, if someone was a lesbian and they had a straight sister, it would still be okay for them to see each other. Its totally fine.
2007-02-15 16:45:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋