2007-02-15 16:31:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Be there for her and give her what she needs....therapy.
2007-02-15 16:33:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she has to talk to someone about it. First of all, that girl might be molesting again and so someone has to know about her. Second, she will learn that there are support groups for people who have been molested and the worst thing sometimes is feeling you're the only one (you're not). If she sees that other victims of molesters are people who look and act nice, she'll realize that there's nothing defective about her that made this thing happen to her. In that sense, therapy is a beginning because a good therapist refers you to thing like support groups.
2007-02-18 17:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very hard to console someone who has been through something like that. Its something u can never understand unless u have been through it yourself. I would encourage u to tell your friend that she needs to get some professional help and report this to the police. Most importantly she needs to know that this is not her fault. I went through the same thing only it was by a family member and i found that the only relief i got and felt better about what happened is by talking to people that have been through the same thing
2007-02-18 16:40:35 · answer #3 · answered by spacelee666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no consolation you can really give her. What she needs is a good dose of therepy to get over issues. Call a child psychologist and schedule a meeting ASAP. File a police report. Make sure that this girl is fairly punished for what she did.
2007-02-15 22:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by bpbjess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this might be something that may only be done with time. its hard to be molested by anyone, trust me. let her know that it wasnt her fault and she didnt do anything to provoke it. as long as she knows that it wasnt her fault and she didnt do anything wrong, then that may help a lil. it also helps to be mad at the person who did the molesting. i was molested by my grandfather, and when i went to therapy (it didnt help) i knew that the only real help i got was talking with my sisters about it b/c they had been through it too. it helped to be mad at him *and his wife* and it did take a while. let her know that she can talk to you about anything whenever she needs to talk. talking really does help. sorry it had to happen to her. God bless, and hope she has a healthy recovery.
2007-02-15 16:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Counseling and Prayer. Tell her even though she is going through a hard time in her life right know she will over come. and let her know that you will always be there for her no matter what.
2007-02-15 16:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by babyGIRL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do for her i know what im saying that is a very hard thing to forget it takes time and she will never than you just have to stay bye her side and let her deal with it in her own way it will pass in time
2007-02-19 16:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that's really unfortunate. tell her she has a bright future waiting for her and tell her there's lots of people that love her. hug her often =)
hope she feels better.
2007-02-15 16:36:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her to counseling.
2007-02-16 07:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
therepy
2007-02-15 22:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋