that she does get excited but whenever they are doing it that it doesnt give her pleasure. She is going to the gyno but i would like to know what you guys have to say about this if any of you have had this situation.
2007-02-15 16:23:57 · 25 answers · asked by <3muahz<3 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
she might have phimoses.
2007-02-16 04:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be like that too, but eventually busted out the vibrator during intercourse and now I can orgasm during intercourse with the best of 'em. Women are interesting because they are stimulated by the clitoris (and by thinking of sexy things) and men are stimulated by thrusting motions. With some women (I keep hearing 30% thrown around) they can have orgasms without clitoris stimulation, but that ain't me or many of my friends. Another thing is that most of the nerves in the vagina are near the opening, not deep inside, and there are LOTS of nerves on the clit. I keep hearing from older women too, that sex gets better when a woman is in her 30s, and even better in her 40s. We take longer to peak, whereas men peak at 18 or so... It takes practice and lots of clitoris stimulation generally. Good luck and sorry this isn't a guy's opinion, but I have talked to a lot of people about this...
2007-02-15 17:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Vida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the same with me!! I have only EVER once from the past 6yrs that ive been having sex have i ever had "pleasure" and that was 2weeks ago!! I have not myself been to the doctors about it, maybe i should, who knows but your friend is not alone ..
Let me know what her doctors says !! Ive always been very curious on to why some people can have pleasure through sex and others cant .. lol i find it unfair !!
2007-02-15 16:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by channy_simon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women don't even experience an orgasm or pleasure during sex. I know I sure do! lol. But some women don't. They need direct clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm. This is why couples do foreplay, and have oral sex, because it is concentrated right on the clit, which makes a girl orgasm faster. Sometimes it depends on which position she is in too, there are different positions that give you different pleasures. She should try different positions, and also, have her rub her clit, or tell her to tell her boyfriend to do it, while they are having sex. It works. It's normal for her to experience this. :)
2007-02-15 16:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by kasey06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe some underlying issues that may need some attention with a gynocologist or a talk therapist. Sometimes friends keep certain issues private from others. Maybe its a physiological issue which is where a gynecologist would come into the picture.
Best of look to your friend.
2007-02-15 16:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women don't have orgasms during sex. They need to be externally stimulated, whether they are excited or not. She may want to try being on top, that may do the trick.
2007-02-15 16:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. her boyfriend sucks
2. medication/drugs like e can cause loss of sensitivity
3. over usage of vibrators and such things can cause loss of sensitivity
4. child abuse can cause a shut down of sexual feeling
5. it's possible he's to small as a result of drug abuse (steroids)
6. not enough foreplay
7. does she masturbate and feel anything?
8. i defy anyone else to come up with a better answer?
9. she's playing with you
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2007-02-15 16:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by neojonako 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she is not getting enouph stimulation on her clitoris, she should try to pleasure herself first or by herself then don't just expect the guy to know what you are feeling and think he should just know what to do. Help him out and let him know what gives you pleasure.
2007-02-15 16:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she isnt ready for it, or isnt mature enough to enjoy it or as he said the guy may not be good:) but she'll find the one and have much pleasure soon enough
2007-02-15 16:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by cookiemonster2820 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a few tries for woman to enjoy sex of what i heard. It hurts for the first few times, then they might not feel anything then later thewould finally enjoy it.
2007-02-15 16:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by Yay Area 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who you're with...
I think the more you love a guy, the more pleasure you get. It's a mind thing.
2007-02-15 16:28:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋