I'm 36 and the person I have the hots for is 51 and married.
2007-02-15 16:12:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
BTW...I'm a man and so is he.
2007-02-15 16:20:22 · update #1
you shall not covet your neighbor's house,
you shall not covet your neighbor's WIFE
nor his male servant, nor his female servant,
nor his ox, nor his donkey,
nor anything that is your neighbor's.
EXODUS 20:1-17
2007-02-15 16:22:46 · answer #1 · answered by iroc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say respect the marriage, but no, a secret admirer note isn't creepy as long as you don't use creepy language, and you don't send 80 of them all at once
2007-02-16 00:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by Chipper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, it's ok to have feelings for someone who is married as long as you don't act on them. It's wrong to mess with someone who is taken. Why would you want him. If he left his wife for you then what makes you think he won't leave you for someone else. I have seen and met a lot of married men that I liked but I didn't act on it because it's wrong and because I have strong boundaries for myself. I value marriage and I told myself a long time ago that I only date singled guys, not guys that are with their wife or separated but single.
You need to take a look at why you are attracted to people who are already committed. Maybe you feel it's safer that way, maybe you are afraid of someone leaving you so you pick someone who is already committed. Whatever the reason is you deserve to be with someone who is totally committed to you and you alone.
2007-02-16 00:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
51 and married...you could cause a lot of trouble...or do you intend to?
2007-02-16 00:19:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
I've received anonymous gifts and they just creep me out.
and you really don't have any right to mess with anyone else's marriage.
Me, gay too.
2007-02-16 01:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're a woman, do it. If you're a man, don't
2007-02-16 00:18:02 · answer #6 · answered by Charlie Brown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea go for it, see what happens or you'll never = know
2007-02-16 00:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by mikedrazenhero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it.
2007-02-16 00:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋