i have decited years ago that i am staying a virgin till i get married, because of this most guys will not date me and treat me different. so how do i tell the one guy that treats me well that im waiting?
2007-02-15 16:01:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I'm staying a virgin until i get married.......not that im soo conservative, religious, and stuff..but i think every woman or girl should show men how theyre not cheap and easily given.......trust me, guys dont respect girls who just have sex with them
but if you really feel that there's a guy who deserves you, maybe you should go for it, even though i realllllllllly feel you should wait...besides, if the man who supposedly deserves you really loved you, than he can wait for you until u get married..... :)
2007-02-15 16:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay a virgin, most people will say that your out of it, or maybe some men will not give you the time of day. I say so be it. They would not be worth giving it to or saving it for anyway. If a man loves you he will stay will you. How do you tell him? I don't think that is something you need to just blurt out when you are first meeting someone. When you are dating if the man expects it, As I'm sure men haven't changed much since I was a virgin, Just let them know that it will go no further and your reason why. Like I said it will probably be the last time you see many of of them, but one day you will meet someone who is dating you because they are interested in YOU not in what kind of sexual relief you will provide for them He is out there believe me! And he is well worth the wait. Don't change your values no matter what anyone else tell you.
2007-02-15 16:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy that treats you well is really the one... and you tell him.. he will understand and wait with you.
I thought I was going to wait, but when I was 14 I met someone very special to me. I lost my virginity to him, and 6 years later here we are still together and engaged :)
So, what I'm trying to say is, it's not bad if you Don't wait but it is also Good to wait. And if the guy is really the one for you, he will respect your desire to wait :)
2007-02-15 16:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by glitteringfairywings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bring up sex until later in the relationship. That way, he'll love you for you already and more likely being willing to wait for you .
If the subject does come along, just be clear about it. There's no use in beating around the bush. He's either understanding and patient or not.
2007-02-15 16:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes you, then he will not care that you are waiting until marriage. It is your decision, and he can't change it. Most guys will be jerks about it, but there are a few who respect women for there decisions, you just have to make sure you find the right one. He isn't worth it if he doesn't support you in decisions you make :)
2007-02-15 16:11:54 · answer #5 · answered by kasey06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should wait, a guy who truly respects you will not pressure you into doing anything you dont want to. Just tell him that plain out that you want to wait till youre married. And if he dont like that, then he's not the right guy for you.
2007-02-15 16:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by Lorrane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him.
If he really loves you, he will understand and will wait. If he doesn't, then he wasn't worth it.
Kudos to you for waiting and not jumping into bed with every guy you see. More girls should wait.
After you're married and if you find out you're sexually incompatible (it happens), you can always get an annulment.
2007-02-15 16:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i an the same way but i'm a Christian and thats a part of the reason why i'm saving myself but this one boy lost count of how many times he did it and said he likes and respects me more than all the other girls he been with in the pass (he makes it sound like it was just a f*ck) and he said i'm cuter than them too and he would always assure me that he aint in to be "the first" and that he could just hold me cuz he knows makin love aint in my plans but he finds it SO SEXY that i'm not touched or seen with my clothes off b4, its like he likes that fact that i'm clean and i like that too so actually i get treated better than those girls who gave themselves up, he looked at it as temporary pleasure but he knows true love is different than what everyone else is doin, make your relationship interesting by makin it without sex - its worth it.
2007-02-16 07:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by Patrice C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will know who you want to give your "goods" to when the time is right. don't be rushed into it with none of these men corny *** lines. if he truly respects you then he should understand and wait for you. if not **** him and toss his *** to the side. stay healthy and pure. maintain your innocence. you will have a better chance of not dying and ruining your health.
2007-02-15 16:41:41 · answer #9 · answered by miss info 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if he cares about you, he will understand and (hopefully) have the same desire to wait. If he gets upset, let him go-it's not worth the trouble.
2007-02-15 16:07:27 · answer #10 · answered by Kevin Richardson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋