How many times a month is normal for a healthy sexual relationship? Averages? I guess this changes with the person you are with too.
2007-02-15 15:45:29 · 22 answers · asked by Paradox 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
3 times a week is considered normal. But again, it depends with your partner's desire, age, relationship, etc. One of my ex hardly wanted once every month, my current one wants 3 times every day, 7 days a week. Both of them were of same age, how can you normalize it, anyway?
2007-02-15 15:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by purplemollies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A yearly average is 92 for married, and 49 for single. That is national average, weekly average is 3-4 times a week probably, I usually have sex 10-14 times a week with my husband but we are both very sexual. It does have a lot to do with the person, some people just don't have the desire/libido that others do. Talk to your spouse or significant other about how often they would like to. I know many guys who are like "I don't get enough" and then their significant others are saying the same damn thing. No communication there LOL.
2007-02-15 16:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by Hawaiisweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that it depends a lot on your age. 18-40:30+, 40-65:15-30, over 65:0-15(g-luck). Of course, these are just guesses at what might be averages. Emphasis on averages.
2007-02-15 15:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This number varies by the person that is asking. If you are sexually deviant then its more times that someone who isnt.
The number will always go down as the relationship goes on longer. Its like finding a breakfast cereal that you like, the more times you eat it, the less "new" it is.. But if you regulate the ammount of times that you have it, you'll never get sick of it......
2007-02-15 21:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No the answer you are looking for... but it depends on the people. For some 3X week.
For others 1X week or less.
Studies shows that it drops off the longer you are married. Kids don't help.
There will be some people who say EVERY DAY!!! And others that will say "Once a month, if I'm lucky.." those people are exceptions, not the rule.
2007-02-15 15:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess if you have it 3 times a week if would count out to 12 times a month but if you do it 2 times a week then 8 times a month! but i dont think you should do it more than 5 times a week!
2007-02-15 15:49:05 · answer #6 · answered by asdfghjkl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my woman for 3 years now. We have sex an average of at least once a day, every day. Maybe more sometimes. I don't see that changing at all.
2007-02-15 19:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by jack c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experence I know that once a month is not good. If depnds on alot. Age, children, married. When I was in my 20's, it was 3 times a week, 30's.......3 times a week...................40 3 time a week,. some people have a high sex drive.
2007-02-15 15:49:14 · answer #8 · answered by luckycadmiss 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the couple and how long they've been together. In the beginning we did it pretty much every day at least once. Now, after being married and having a child....maybe once a week....if he's lucky
2007-02-15 15:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by meh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no "normal" - every single relationahip is different. Don't worry about what's normal - think about what meets both your needs. If you want more (or less) than your partner just say so in a non-threatening way.
2007-02-15 15:50:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋