ok my lebian friend wants me to give her a kiss on the cheek and i'm not a lesbian and i love my friend but i think it would feel to awkward is it me or is it weird becuz shes a lesbian?
p.s if i'm afraid to give her a kiss does that mean i feelings for her?
HELP ME PLEAZZZZ!!!!!!!
2007-02-15 15:37:41 · 7 answers · asked by Savannah 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you can practice kissing my cheeks >__<
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2007-02-15 15:46:31 · answer #1 · answered by Paula 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
such juvenile thoughts, but thats ok. if you are mature enough, you would accept this as nothing more than a kiss on the cheek. plenty of straight women kiss each other on the cheek, sometimes even lips. a kiss isnt always sexual, its a sign of affection, something that should be shared by everyone
2007-02-15 23:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by jane doe doe 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this meant nothing, you know
a lot of lesbians in my area act that same way. It is just a way to say goodbye. And almost all straight people always say goodbye by kissing at cheecks.
don't be afraid. And actually, she knows you are straight so you are a bit overreacting in my opinion
2007-02-16 06:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by frenzie-ann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.....I have been in this situation. It went from me kissing my lesbian best friend on the cheek (which I was afraid to do) to kissing her on the lips to having sleepovers to admitting we had feelings for each other to making out to having sex and FINALLY ruining our entire friendship. Yay, me.
And Paula, I can practice kissing your cheeks...which ever set you prefer. (See what one not-so-innocent friendship did to me?)
2007-02-15 23:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by Betty Sue 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Afraid to kiss her...Well if you fantize about her..I would say you like her and are afraid to do so..IF NOT...then your just not interested in her and kissing her and you just maybe afraid of her liking you and asking for more..LIke a kiss on the lips next...BUT IF YOU DO like her...GO for and be HAppy! : )
2007-02-16 04:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It most likely just means that you're straight. Doing something contrary to your sexuality can cause someone to be very uncomfortable. If you don't want to, tell her.
2007-02-17 03:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it does not mean you have feelings for her. She should also respect you and not ask you to do something that makes you uncomfortable.
2007-02-15 23:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by kar506 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋