Ok im only 13 years old nd i like dis boy who is 16. I talk 2 him online and he wants to see me alot but mostly 4 sex.He is really really cute nd he thinks i am 2. Hes always flirtin wit me and im scared dat if i have sex wit him, i might regret it. Can sum1 help me? Please
2007-02-15 15:32:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Dont do it im 14 rii now.. and ive chose not to have sex it's a real bad idea no matter how cute he is i date the sexiest guys in school and they wanted me to have sex wit dem but i was strong and said no ... the consiquences of that is horrible. I knew this girl who was in the 8th grade and she got in pregenated by this 16 or 17 yr old. they kicked her out of the school and she had to go to another district. trust me dont do it for reall. My friend also had sex wit a 16 yr old and she said she regreted it. plus u can end up having a baby! god d a m n what if the condomn breaks . and imagine all that pain that u have to go through to have the baby and how much ur parents will be mad at u ... oh yea and my mom had me when she was 16 and she told me that it was hell be so young and raising a kid when ur so young and plus u dont have any free time for your self cus u gotta be taken care of that kid all the time.
Well . i hope u take my advice and dont have sex...
and if u do unfortunately use the protection
God bless
Much Luv ♥♥
2007-02-15 17:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by cookydo12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He says he is 16. Do you believe? Some guys as old as 40 say they are 16 on-line because they lie so that they can have sex with young girls like you.
Don't agree to have sex with him even if you meet him in a public place like a crowded coffee shop. Even if he in fact turns out to be 16 then you definitely, really should not have sex because you both are way too young.
If he is much older than you, tell him he is old, run away and report him to the police.
2007-02-15 22:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not something that you should do to make someone like you because you will regret it. If he really likes you then it won't be an issue, if it is an issue then you should stay away from him. I was in your shoes once and I wish someone had given me that advice. I truly believe that when the time comes for you to have sex it should be with someone who you truly care about not someone you are trying to keep liking you. I wish you all the best and first and fore most always do what your gut tells you to do, and what makes you comfortable. There are lots of boys our there and I can guarantee that you will find the one that is right for you.
2007-02-15 17:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by dolphin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are talking to this guy online and have never met him chances are he is not 16 and u need to stop the emails now. There are a lot of predators out there preying on young girls and if u meet him u never know what could happen. Just because he tells u a bunch of stuff doesn't mean that it is true. Walk away from this and be safe. Think about yourself. A lot of girls your age are naive and have no idea what is out there. Stop talking to him and forget him..........NOW
2007-02-18 16:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by spacelee666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heed my advice, you are too young for a relationship, not to say having sex with him. he asked you out just for sex proved that he is just playing with you, and he does not love you at all.maybe you are a teenager, you have the urge to have a partner, so on the impulse you said that you liked him.
He said that you are cute so as to make you think that he really loves you, but actually he does not. you can still say no to him, as you knew that having sex with him will make you regretful.
I am also a teenager, and i know how you feel. would you rather have sex with him, then regret it for the rest of your life?Think twice about his request and make the right choice!
2007-02-15 18:21:42 · answer #5 · answered by HumanBeingOnEarth! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't most people don't know they have STD's till they have passed them on.
Commonly reported prevalences of STIs among sexually active adolescent girls both with and without lower genital tract symptoms include chlamydia trachomatis (10 to 25%), Neisseria gonorrhoeae (3 to 18%), syphilis (0 to 3%), Trichomonas vaginalis (8 to 16%), and herpes simplex virus (2 to 12%).[citation needed] Among adolescent boys with no symptoms of urethritis, isolation rates include C. trachomatis (9 to 11%) and N. gonorrhoeae (2 to 3%).[citation needed]
As early as 1996, WHO estimated that more than 1 million people were being infected daily. About 60% of these infections occur in young people <25 years of age, and 30% of this age group is <20 years. Between the ages of 14 and 19, STDs occur more frequently in girls than boys by a ratio of nearly 2:1; this equalizes by age 20.
Most of the diseases on this list are most commonly transmitted sexually. Some are commonly transmitted in other ways as well; for example, HIV/AIDS is also commonly transmitted through the sharing of infected needles by drug users, while SARS, which can be spread through casual contact such as coughing and sneezing, is very often not associated with sexual activity.
Bacterial
•Chancroid (Haemophilus ducreyi)
•Chlamydia infection (Chlamydia trachomatis)
•Donovanosis (Granuloma inguinale or Calymmatobacterium granulomatis)
•Gonorrhea (Neisseria gonorrhoeae)
•Lymphogranuloma venereum (LGV) (Chlamydia trachomatis serotypes L1, L2, L3. See Chlamydia)
•Non-gonococcal urethritis (NGU) (Ureaplasma urealyticum or Mycoplasma hominis)
•Syphilis (Treponema pallidum)
Viral
•Cytomegalovirus
•Hepatitis B. Note that Hepatitis A and Hepatitis E are transmitted via the fæcal-oral route, not sexually; Hepatitis C is rarely sexually transmittable,[3]and the route of transmission of Hepatitis D is uncertain, but may include sexual transmission.[4] [5] [6]
•Herpes / HSV (Herpes simplex virus)
•Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV/AIDS)
•Human papillomavirus (HPV)
oCertain strains of HPV cause genital warts
oCertain strains of HPV cause cervical dysplasias which can lead to cervical cancer
•Molluscum (MC)
Parasites
•Pubic lice a.k.a "crabs" (Phthirius pubis)
•Scabies (Sarcoptes scabiei)
Protozoal
•Trichomoniasis (Trichomonas vaginalis)
2007-02-15 21:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by Miss C.J. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl dont do that...im 13 2 and im pregnant by a 17 year old
he used 2 love me and i neva thought i could feel any better
well now he act like he dont even know me
not answerin my calls
blockin me out and s h i t
and all that
i hope yall or sumone else dont have 2 go through this hell
GOOD LUCK
*JA`LISA*
2007-02-15 16:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by Ja`Lisa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep away from him!!!!! that fools trouble, i mean it too. if he know where u live tell ur friggin parents. 16 yr old shouldnt b flirtin with 13 yr olds. ull regret it if u meet him in person
2007-02-16 18:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by sambucca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have sex with him. i had sex with someone who i thought was gone be with me forever. we broke up (1 year relationship)but we still talk and i dont regret having sex. but what im saying is most females regret it.but i would just say dont have sex with him it would be a mistake. and if you like continue likeing him but save your self the pain. ~**good luck and best wishes**~
2007-02-15 17:03:23 · answer #9 · answered by *babygirl* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not have sex with him. Make him wait, if he likes you he will respect your decision to wait. Any time you have sex you can get pregnant. Even if you use birth control, it is not 100%.
2007-02-15 17:07:42 · answer #10 · answered by Pamelab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋