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...and don't care about the rest?

I am asking because I have no friends or family and I don't know how to go about finding new ones.

2007-02-15 15:26:39 · 11 answers · asked by Zeek 3 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Other - Cultures & Groups

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That is a generalization of society. There are some that might only love their immediate family members and then there are others that will love many people in their lives that they care about, family or not. You just need to go out and socialize. The more you do that the more people you will come into contact with and you might find some that end up sharing a connection with you, then you will be loved.

2007-02-15 15:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anthony L 3 · 2 0

The other responder said it too, Family doesn't necessarily love us like we value love. Since Love is an ambiguous word lets try to say it logically. Our brains produce a chemical called Dopamine. This Dopamine gets released in our bodies. As it does so it gives us that warm fuzzy feeling, that intense love, or even hate. and more importantly... When you FEEL that bond with someone important to you.

I realize this is not a romantic notion and many will probably give me the thumbs down but lets be real here. If you could get Dopamine in a pill I bet the whole world would become addicted to it. We are already but call it emotions.

2007-02-15 15:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 1 0

and how to people go about gaining friends? by socializing. going out, having fun! you dont get to choose your family, which is good and bad all at the same time, but you can choose who your friends are. go out and search! you maye just find someone who will love you more than anything and vice versa! good luck...also, if you ever want someone to talk to, message me. im always up for a good chat! :)

2007-02-15 15:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by jane doe doe 1 · 1 0

i have a lot of family that i don't talk or have any relantionship with. There is also meetup.com, where people have similar interests can get together in their area, you might find a nice group to join there. You can also volunteer like in a hospital or for various organizations.
you can always talk to me, i only have 1 friend myself and we don't even talk that much.
hope you feel better.

2007-02-15 15:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

When you feel bad about life, just think of God...

It could be worse, you could be God: alone, powerless, doing nothing all day long except watching the human experiment on earth fail miserably.

At least we have an opportunity to live. For better or worse, life is better than nothing.

2007-02-16 08:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Zeek, first thing you need to do is take care of yourself. You are in bad shape my friend and you need to get healthy. Friends will come later, you have to fix what's wrong first. Trying to make friends right now would not work.

2007-02-15 15:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by Rosalind S 4 · 2 0

Because they are the closest to oneself. Had a person been raised by foster parents, he/she would love them. The same holds for friends. It is human nature.

2007-02-15 15:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by dllr 1 · 0 0

Bless your heart. I'll be your friend I care about everybody that's why I want you to go to my 360 page and message me. People like us need to stick together! Peace.

2007-02-15 15:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Who says I love my immediate family?!!

Welcome, Friend! Oh, Zeek, we all love you!!

Gregory

2007-02-15 15:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

That's not true....I care.

2007-02-15 15:47:11 · answer #10 · answered by Diamond in the Rough 6 · 2 0

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