me and my husband have been trying for 6 months and last month i didn't start i was almost 3 weeks late when i went to the doctor it wasn't showing up in the home test so i went and got a blood test but they called me today at work and told me it was neg i was so upset. so i just missed a period thats never happend before. i was just wanting someone to tell me something that i could get or do to get pregnant someone give me some good advice please!!!
2007-02-15 15:15:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I used a Clearblue Easy Fertility Monitor. (I got pregnant in two months). It's expensive, but it will help you to determine when you are ovulating and when your most fertile times are. If you're not ovulating consistently, you will know about it with this machine. Sometimes it's as simple as you ovulate earlier or later than what is typical. It's very easy to use, and comes with an excellent instruction manual. If you're under 30, they say you don't need to see a doctor until after you've been trying for a year. Also, make sure you're already taking a prenatal vitamin with folic acid. Also, check out Baby Center- they have lots of useful advice for preconception for you and your husband. Good luck! It will happen!
2007-02-15 15:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by Ida B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AW! I wish I could rech out and give you a great big hug! I know how hard htis is! I am going through it now and have a friend who went through it for 1 1/2 years! But the good news is, my friend is pregnant, so don't give up!
I am assuming you have gone and had tests done on you and your husband, to make sure you are both working properly in that department. I know how frustrating it is to have everyone tell you to stop stressing and relax and then it will happen, because that doesn't do anything but upset you more!
However, the fact that you did miss a period could very well be due to the stress you are under from wanting this baby so badly! Assuming that tests have been run and you two are both normal functioning, then it may just take ya'll a little longer. Have you started taking any fertility meds?
I have several problems working against me, but I am on the proper medication now and hoping that it will take effect soon! If you are into religion, I will suggest prayer! Sounds odd, but it helps. Talk to God, let him know how you are feeling, and He can comfort you in ways no other person can! It's hard, I'm not going to try to tell you it isn't, you already know it is! But, just think of the payoff in the end when you are holding your new little one! Good luck and I'll pray for you!
2007-02-15 16:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me a year to conceive my first child. I had pretty much given up. Point is, 6 months is not that long to try. It took me about 8 months to get the second one. The first thing you MUST do is RELAX. You are not doing yourself or your husband any favors.
To conceive the first child I had to put away the fertility chart and the thermometer. They were stressing us both out. It happened when we were both relaxed over a holiday break from work. After I had waited 6 months to conceive the second child, I had a plan. I knew that I usually ovulated around day 13 of my 28 day cycle (thanks to the thermometers and fertility charts). I decided that we would have sex every day from day 10 to day 16. I did that for one month and conceived my second child. Remeber to count your days from the FIRST day of your last period, NOT the day you stop bleeding.
2007-02-15 15:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by anne p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a thought, My wife and I tried to have a child for three years and nothing and then when we gave up it happend. Now we have a wonderful daughter and one on the way. Don't give up and don't get frustrated. Study up!! Some ways to work for other that may not work for you, but you will never know if you don't look and try. When all else fails, don't give up, but don't put to much thought into it. Babies are not just made out of wanting a baby, but wanting a each other.
2007-02-15 15:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by James Dean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry. I know how hard it is to try and try month after month and still no baby. I know it is especially hard when something like being late gets your hopes up and then you are devistated. All I can suggest to you is what everyone is saying to me... try to relax and not think about it. Try to stop charting and taking OPK and just know the week you ovulate and have fun with it. I believe that God gives us what we need when we are ready. I know it is hard to wait but just think about how great it will be when it happens... and it will happen for you. Good Luck!
2007-02-15 15:21:21 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs Adams 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have any pregnancy symptoms, take the blood test again after 10 days.
the same happened to me and they told me the machine that gives the results was false.
by that time i was almost 3 months pregnant.
good luck!
2007-02-15 18:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by hocus pocus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
diet is always a good one, eat healthy dont drink or smoke
if you are still having trouble maybe get tested
i recently donated my eggs and now the couple that were trying for four years and thought they would never conceive now have a baby
good luck!
2007-02-15 16:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by jahsmum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying. seriously. just forget about what you're trying to do, focus on getting your life back to the point where you're no longer thinking about this, and where you don't have anymore stress. then your body will be able to operate at it's peak level, and you and you husband, acting out of love and excitement, might just be able to get pregnant without trying.
2007-02-15 15:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by VillageGirl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take rest and avoid to your husband and pray God ,Who is almighty
2007-02-15 15:21:26 · answer #9 · answered by anubhav_55 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try relaxing a little.
2007-02-15 15:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by nobudE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋