Am I not good enough?

Question

finally got up the nerve to ask my crush(my trainer) to 'hang out". i text messaged him asking him that we should hang out soon and he text messaged me back ten minutes later...that he would, although it have to be the next time he gets paid because he's broke as a joke" quote on quote.. andas we conversated furthur he went on furthur to say that he's a shy guy when it comes to women because he's afraid or rejection.. I asked him does he fell confident enough to get with an attractive woman..and he said yes but usually and he's not in pursuit .. well, he said it depends what mood he's in...So I text messaged him about a job..he's suppossed to be hooking me up with get no return message,I even called ..no call


I know in the past he has invited me to his church group(but never came through on his invite)..and he invited me to workout with him(never followed through)..but he has told me that if I ever hang out to call him..so we can hit up a movie..so I did..

Answer 1

Next time you see him and you know he does not have anywhere else to go take him out for coffee or a coke. He is shy from how you talked about him, you will have to make the first move and if he doesn't take it from there then he is not good enough for you.