finally got up the nerve to ask my crush(my trainer) to 'hang out". i text messaged him asking him that we should hang out soon and he text messaged me back ten minutes later...that he would, although it have to be the next time he gets paid because he's broke as a joke" quote on quote.. andas we conversated furthur he went on furthur to say that he's a shy guy when it comes to women because he's afraid or rejection.. I asked him does he fell confident enough to get with an attractive woman..and he said yes but usually and he's not in pursuit .. well, he said it depends what mood he's in...So fast forward a week later... I text messaged and called him today about a job..he's suppossed to be hooking me up with..I get no return message
I know in the past he has invited me to his church group(but never came through on his invite)..and he invited me to workout with him(never followed through)..but he has told me that if I ever hang out
2007-02-15 14:12:49 · 5 answers · asked by Brooke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like he is just a flake...sorry, good guy will treat you better and although us pretty girls seem to get the attention but not have the guys actually 'persue' us, the right guy for you will...
2007-02-15 14:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Paradox 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would give him until tomorrow. Something may have come up and he could not return your call today but if you hear nothing from him by tomorrow then I would let it go. He may have lost intrest after the times that you never followed up on any of his advances. He may be the one that felt rejected. Life is too short crushing on someone..if you want them the go after it..all they can say is no or yes!
2007-02-15 14:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he goes to church he is probably wanting a church girl and was hoping you would get into church and like it. Basically just confront him or drop him. Or what I would do is if he confronts me I would talk, if not I would drop him.
2007-02-15 14:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by HereIAm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know what is more pathetic: his EMO act, or you trying to work him for a job or... well... adults don't "hang out unless they're your buddies.
2007-02-15 14:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
What about your marriage?
2007-02-15 14:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by Katie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋