didn't get me a card, a flower, nothing yesterday....
he just spent a small fortune on me in January, do you think I'm too sensitive...?Shouldn't he at least got me a wonderful card...?
That was all I wanted anyway....
2007-02-15 14:09:37 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
My heart just stopped for you when I read this...
my apologises on his behalf....
the oaf !!
2007-02-15 14:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by yahoo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well a card would have been nice...Just because he spent "a small fortune" on you doesn't mean he can't at least give you a valentines day card. I don't think you're being too sensitive.
2007-02-15 14:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by tweetybird37406 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My hubby of 7 years been together for 14 has only given me anything one year for valentines i think it is not as special when they do it on a day that everyone else says they should it means more if they do it for no good reason you will learn it does not matter and really it does not make him romantic because it was expected of him my hubby does things for me just out of the blue and i remember those times and cerish them more. you are being very sensitive. But don't feel bad i was the same way in the first of our relationship but learned he loves even if a gift is given or not.
2007-02-15 14:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by farmerwoman4 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol the same exact thing just happened to me.
But, my guy is still a keeper...for sure.No one is perfect.
If he didn't give you a card did he at least say happy V-day with a kiss or a hug? There may be a reason as to why he didn't give you at least a card.My guy was at work all day.
And he just spent a ton of money on me too here recently.
Its ok to feel a little shunned though, after all yesterday was valentine's day.
2007-02-15 14:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by Dream 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's just the little things that mean the most. Maybe he figured that the small fortune he spent last month counted toward Valentine's day too.
2007-02-15 14:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Zoey ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you both feel about Valentine's Day. Some people don't really see it as a valid holiday. Like you said, your husband spent a fortune on you a month ago. If you feel like he loves you then don't worry about what everyone else is doing, because it really only matters what you two feel about your relationship.
2007-02-15 14:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by Lana F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you felt..I just went thru the same thing. He spent alot of money on me at christmas and just bought be alot of clothes from victoria secrets for my birthday..I didn't even want a card..just atleast cuddle with me at night but nothing for valentines. He slept the majority of the evening.
No your not wrong. You just wanted your valentine moment like all other woman.
2007-02-15 14:14:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mine never spends a small fortune on me ever! Mine doesn't really tell me he loves me much, except afterwards...
Was he with you, did he have a chance to get you anything, did he vervally wish you happy valentines day? You do know that in many cultures Valentines Day is not recognized.
Do you know that he loves you?
Do you really want to put the effort into looking for someone else?
2007-02-15 14:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by Rahab 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it's that way: As long he takes good car of you all year ,what is this one day ? I think if a man does not say I love you on the other 364 days ion the year doe not need to say it on valentines day .
2007-02-15 14:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by Silverearth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expressing love to someone is not about one special day...Valentines Day, birthday, etc It's how you relate and cherish a person all year round, not just on ' holidays' ....Yet, to not give anything to one's sweetie on Valentines is not cool. I'm sorry you experienced that.
2007-02-15 14:12:56 · answer #10 · answered by onelight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the point of getting a card or a gift is to show how much you like someone...not to get something just to get a gift. you get it? i don't think your being to sensitive, but your missing the point.
2007-02-15 14:13:43 · answer #11 · answered by soccer_chick8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋