How come I don't have any real best friends? I mean, I do have a lot of close friends, but the spot of "bestest friend ever" is already taken for them...
So instead i spend my saturday nights on the computer or in front of the TV. And I do kinda have a best friend, but we're from completely different worlds and we don't do EVERYTHING together like how best friends should....
I used to have a bestest friend ever where we would do everything together, but we got in a major fight and haven't talked or seen each other for 2 years... I still regret it sometimes to this day however
I always feel left out at school. I never walk down the hallways chatting to my friends or anything like that, and when we do, we have nothing to talk about. I do have a "best" friend at school, but she already has her top 1 friend, and i always feel like i'm never anyone's top 1 where we should be hanging at the mall & watching movies together...
2007-02-15 13:53:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
And I do talk to my friends on the phone, but i never feel 100% comfortable around them, like i can't be 100% myself. I have to change part of me in some way to fit in with them. And i'm definately NOT popular at school, but NOT a dork either.. A
nd it just feels so frustrating! I do sit at the lunch table with all my friends, but they're already talking to the person next to them and i'm just sitting alone in the dust eating like I was at a table by myself..
It's like the spot of "best friend" is already taken for everybody...
2007-02-15 13:56:28 · update #1
do you have any sisters or close cousins?
i don't have a bestest best friend outside of my family, but i think my sister is my best friend. we tell eachother EVERYTHING--and we can never stay in a long fight.
you might have to reach out more. be confident in who you are. don't worry about what other people think. be nice to everyone. soon you'll find that one bestest friend-- the reason you haven't found her yet might be bc you're both too shy.
2007-02-15 13:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when you're young,there's still a lot of changes taking place,including developing your own unique personality. The people you would never consider even talking to could very well end up to be your closest friend, &,some you feel very close to you may no longer feel close to anymore. It's all normal groing up.It's confusing,but I am confident you'll find your comfort zone. Give it time & # 1 rule: "DON'T CHANGE YOURSELF FOR ANYBODY, BE YOU.If you aren't comfortable being you,then who could be comfortalble being around you,O.K? It' all work out...you'll see
2007-02-15 14:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by weezie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theres a saying if u have 3 best friends in ur life count urself luck..i have 2 bf 4 the last 15years..we get in fights an dont talk 4 months but we r still bf regardless..try talkin 2 the bf u had the fight wit...maybe u can rekindle ur friendship
2007-02-15 13:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by ToddMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just get out there and meet new people. i mean other people feel the same way. find them and you can make them happy and you can ake yourself happy.
2007-02-15 17:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing with me. I have close friends but they never invite me to anything.
2007-02-15 14:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by Cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋