Me and this guy have been going out for a little while and i feel like ive known him since birth ,the only thing i can even think about is him and he feels the exact same way. Its just that i dont want to love him! because i know everything is gonna go wrong and im going to regret them in the end.so can y'all please help.
2007-02-15 13:44:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
You've been 'going out' only, not 'living' with him. Familiarity breeds contempt. The infatuation that you have may wear off after a certain time, when you'll regret everything. If it's absolutely futile to continue the relationship, stop it here and now.
2007-02-15 13:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sabya 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is apparent you are afraid of relation going wrong , right!!!
well I tell you .. Take that out of your mind , first of all, all relations have mountains and hills to climb , because we are humans to err is divine , the love that exist and that is built with patience has no regrets , release your self to the love available , the one you are presented to you , is obvious is your destiny at work , you should be so grateful to have it in your hands , so many people can never reach this point of having love , yes love will hurt I can assure you , but the joy you gain is monumentally grater , your life will have a purpose and happiness will carry you through so many difficulties , don't abandon what God is giving you , you may not have a second chance , forget your fears of failure , it is only new knowledge , so embrace both of you with love and never give up.
2007-02-15 22:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by young old man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U dont want to love him?? how silly is that? Listen sweetie, when u love someone its unconditional (u love them for who they r no matter what)And when u r IN LOVE with someone that is conditonal (u'll only love them as long as they make u feel a certain way) so if i were u i'd first evaluate which situation am i in then i'd go back and try to figure out y i have such a pessimistic view of how our future would b. where is all this extra baggage coming from???? GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2007-02-15 22:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by JADA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can ever just stop loving anyone you love that much. The feeling just fades a little as time goes by and through time, you learn that you can live without him.
All you can do is let him go, if you really need to and take time off to heal yourself. Haven't you heard? Love is beautiful when you're in it, but painful to try to end it.
Good luck.
2007-02-15 22:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by cassaliciousinsanity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant stop loving someone
You can only learn to deal with the fact that you love someone but you wont ever be together
Love cant just disappear it will always be with us no matter what may have happened or what did not happened it still remains
2007-02-16 00:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't know the future and better to try and fail than not to try at all and never know. love is a human emotion that doesn't have an off and on switch. how do we know what happiness is if we have never felt unhappiness.
2007-02-16 01:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by kattz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely want to stop loving this guy, you're going to have to cut off all contact with him. No phone calls, no emails, no nothing.
2007-02-16 00:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by Roman Soldier 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy to say, but hard to do > change YOUR ideals and thoughts. He will eventually fade away as you progress onward, or at least in a new direction
2007-02-16 08:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by BANANA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long are you going to hide from life.
Time to stop hiding and start living.
Love and blessings Don
2007-02-15 22:01:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-15 21:53:09 · answer #10 · answered by Pearl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋