Is it acceptable for one person to view pornography without the other? Plz enter M or F (male or female) and age if you are willing. Thanks
2007-02-15 13:11:46 · 14 answers · asked by alan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Female, 24, I dont have a problem with my husband looking at porn, as long as he doesnt try to hide it from me or is doing it all the time instead of being with me! Porn is only an issue if you are hiding from your spouse or you are doing it instead of your spouse.
2007-02-15 13:15:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 05:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by winkles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I view it on the internet. I used to view it in magazines, but that's not so necessary now.
I think if one views it, the other can too.
It's not something to be recommended though. If it happens, it happens, but it's better to just use your imagination instead of depending on something which in almost all cases has exploited someone. They might look like they're enjoying it, but looks can be deceiving.
M 30s
2007-02-15 13:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Male 30. My wife and I have an understanding, guys are going to look at porn, they have since it's conception. Try renting soft-core from your cable provider and making a night of it with your loved one. Women often sympathize when there is a story line and some sort of plot.
2007-02-15 13:16:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is okay for one to view it without the other. It is fantasy, and nothing else. Those that would say it isn't are simply insecure.
Male, over 40.
2007-02-16 07:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a relationship in which we both enjoy visual stimulation, together and alone. We are monogamous and it poses no conflict at all.
2007-02-15 13:16:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you ask me yes. If you ask my wife then No.
Porn and relationships usually don't go well. Talk to your mate and see what agreement you can come up with. I have what I called pron Friday. Only one day left yiipppeee!!!
2007-02-15 13:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Work it out between the two of you.
2007-02-15 13:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is pornography ever acceptable? The answer is no...
2007-02-15 13:14:42 · answer #9 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
F, 27, it's not acceptable to do it secretly.. no need to hide it.
2007-02-15 13:16:23 · answer #10 · answered by - L - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋