This was our first Valentines Day-- our one year anniversary is next week. That morning he writes happy valentines on a post-it note. So of course I was annoyed and he knew it. He shows up at my office 10 minutes after I get there with flowers- obviously an afterthought from the grocery store.
He isn't clueless-- he's sent me flowers before and done christmas and birthday well....
??????????????
2007-02-15 13:00:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Kinda of cute if you ask me. Lots of guys don't do a darn thing...
Smile and be gracious. It is just a pagan holiday. Make it special for him...and he will get a clue one day. It is the thought that counts...remember?
2007-02-15 13:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by kishoti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries, the post-it note is like a slip-up on his part. He did make an effort and get you flowers. So he did give you a pretty present this Valentines Day. He also has remembered your birthday and Christmas gifts, and I can definitely assume that you will be enjoying your one year anniversary next week.
Do remind him, just once, about what day it is. But don't push the day. Guys hate that. He is thinking of you, and there are enough holidays to keep up with every year, as a woman, even I get sick of buying stuff every holiday.
Best wishes for you both.
2007-02-15 13:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he had something big planned for later in the day, and the post-it was just a "thinking of you" until he could give you the real gift later. If you're that insecure in the relationship that you assumed the worst that early in the day, you need to work on your own self-esteem (and he needs to find someone who already has some in the meantime.)
2007-02-15 13:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by Schleppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 11:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men get carried away on Valentine's Day. Did he know that it was important to you and you were expecting gifts and romance? If this is the biggest problem in your relationship, give him a break. Let him know how you feel about it and he will probably try harder next year.
2007-02-15 13:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kind of extreme to think of break up because your man may not be the best at expressing romance.
all men cant be don juan or cyrano de bergerac.
a post-it note then bringing flowers publicly to you, you are a tough cookie.
if he isnt so great and a post-it note on one day triggers enough thought to break up, then why are you with him???...unless its because he has other redeeming qualities you cannot live without.
2007-02-15 13:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all, my bf and I don't celebrate v-day, but maybe he just wanted fresh flowers for you, if gifts are that important to you, let him know you really love the romantic stuff, I think the post it was a thoughtful gesture, plus technically he has all day to shower you with things, give the guy a break.
2007-02-15 14:04:59 · answer #7 · answered by Kelene H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post-it Notes for the Desktop
http://post-itnotesforthedesktop.blogspot.com/
2007-02-15 15:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by vinxxib 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl don't be so materialistic. Give the boy some credit. small little love notes can mean so much more than flowers and all the big stuff.
2007-02-15 13:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by morninglight83 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 19 years, and all I got for Valentines day was a hug and a kiss from my hubby. He DID ask me if I wanted anything, and I told him (honestly) "I don't need you to go out and buy me anything to know that you love me."
2007-02-15 13:21:34 · answer #10 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋