i'm always gettin made fun of for being flat in the rear & above -.-'', & all the boys who are making fun of me used to have a crush on me for a while , but why are they making fun of my body ? it actually makes me think why don't i look like all the other girls ? is it really true puerto rican chicks develop faster ? i did get my period .. & i don't really see much happening.
it sucks that they're always makin fun of how i'm flat .. =/
2007-02-15 12:55:18 · 19 answers · asked by sweetk1ssz 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
i'm 13 & in 8th grade but supposed to be in 7th .. & all of them used to like me .. is it me or did THEY change ?
2007-02-15 13:01:37 · update #1
Everyone goes through puberty at their own rate so please don't think that there is something wrong with you,these boys are nothing but bullies and they don't no how to respect anyone let alone a lady, your an individual and unique be proud for who you are, don't feel that you should look like the other girls they are more than likely going though similar problems,you will be just fine just think at the looks of their faces in years to come when you fully develop into a fine young lady and you have a hunk of a guy in you arm.Your only 13 and I know image is very important but you have got the rest of your life ahead of you boys should be the last thing on your mind,if I where you I'd ignore these silly little boys and hang around with teenagers your own age that will take you for who you are.
If this is really worrying talk with someone you trust,please don't let it get to you..I wish you all the best of luck
Gareth
2007-02-16 06:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the puerto rican girls thing I'm not too suer but all the ones I know are pretty..well sized lol. That really sucks. That never really happened to me I developed on time(i'm 15) but I do know some girls who are pretty small still. No one reall ymakes fun of them for that but alot of them stuff && ppl laff about that. Whatever u do dont try to make yourself look bigger or anything it'll make you look dumb. 7th graderer? I think its kinda normal or late bloomers to be still blooming in 8th its no big deal. U can try a push-up bra if u want. that may help. About the guys ignore them. sounds lame but honestly if there that lame to make fun of u they dont deserve attention. If they really harrase you say something lyke"Hey I wonder how many of u guys have tiny lil' d****..back off" that may be a bit much but everyone has someing they dont like about them or thats different than everyone else. Also tell ur friends what theyre doing trust me no girls wanna be with guys who are that dumb. Hope they stop that'd suck if that happend to me.
2007-02-17 18:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Yaknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Often guys tend to make fun of someone they feel is out of their league. I take it you are young and are still developing. Not everyone has the same body type, in the same way that guys don't find the same body type attractive. Just ignore the insults and be yourself. One thing you can do to change your body type, is contour exercising. The thing is, if you're happy, forget those that are making fun of you. If you want to change, try the exercises.
2007-02-15 21:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by mop-27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say your age - but I remember guys in junior high being wickedly mean about a girl who was flat. Some kind of weird pubescent male bonding I guess. I don't have a cure for their behavior. But know that you're ok and totally normal. Get support from your family and friends and tune out *their* immaturity. Sorry to hear you have to deal with jerks.
2007-02-15 21:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by HomeSweetSiliconValley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every person's body is different. And those boys are so shallow. I'm sure women know more about breasts than I do and will help you on that but as a guy i can tell you being flat chested cannot win over a stunning smile and personality.
2007-02-15 20:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by Prettiest Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dont worry. Its the same here - flat everywhere and I'm a hundred percent cuban. Don't let them bother you. You're body is you're body, and if you appreciate it, they will too. And if those boys are making fun of you, then they're a bunch of pigs.
2007-02-15 20:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by starsnmoons0101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As guys get older, their brains get smaller. It's NOT you...they have changed and are just showing off to one another by belittling you. Don't let them bother you...just don't let them see it bothers you...that is why they keep doing it...if they see you could care less what they think, they would stop or at least move on to the next flat bottomed girl. Ignore them...they will go away.
2007-02-15 21:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by ok2beme80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay attension to them. first of all you are still young and your bra size can change. but even if it dowsn't... it's something secondary there are much more important things.
and these boys, they are just foolish and immature. it they all had a crush on you, then may be the are just embaressed.... that's it so they try to show that they don't care anymore, they're beeing mean. But they are just a bunch of immature idiots....
2007-02-15 21:06:20 · answer #8 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If boys are making fun of you, its best to stay away from them. You shouldn't try to be something you are not to impress people. True beauty is in the inside
2007-02-15 20:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might just be a late bloomer. nd no i dont think puerto rican chicks develope faster. as for the boys i think you just need to ignore them as much as you can. they need to grow up.
2007-02-15 21:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by lilcutie8899 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋