God damn! I have been having the worst 2 weeks ever! First I flunk my roasd test! Then I can't give blood because they said I was 2 "nervouse". WHICH I WASTED TIME STUDYING FOR!!! Then my girl breaks up with me at snowball! one of the biggest dances of the year!! Then I spend most my time moping around the house infront of a mom thats thrilled to see me unhappy. I fell like I get no respect at school! I feel like I live the same day over and over and over. What the hell? I try to be as good as I can but I just keep getting screwed over by the world! Why even act "morel" when you know your just making everybody who victimizes you feel better. Why can't I just have a good day? Why can't I just get lucky for once. Hell eve finding a dollar on the groud would make me over enthustiast right now! Why does the world keep screwing me over! Why can't I have parents who care about me and want to talk to me when they see I'm troubled? Jesus suicide is looking goood if my life keeps goin like this
2007-02-15 12:47:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's not fair! The people who make my life hella re going to get away with it! God must not care about me or something.
2007-02-15 12:49:57 · update #1
I was joking with the suicide. I'm sure hell's alot worse
2007-02-15 12:56:54 · update #2
First sit back take a deep breath and smile. No really...smile. Yes even if you don't feel like it. Okay? Now...listen to me. Parents are asshole's sometimes...well a lot of the time. Sometimes all of the time. It just depends on who you happened to be saddled with. I am 28 years old and I am here to tell you it may not get better. That just may be your lot in life and you will have to deal.
Now you need to take some time to regroup a bit. Study a bit more for your road test, ask out that other hot girl you've been looking at, relax a little bit overall. Unfortunately when things snowball like this you feel like you have been hit by a truck, and you are all keyed up as well. So relaxing on the whole is key. Get some friends together and just kick back a bit. Things WILL get better, because I say so =) Remember suicide is never an option, just the cowards way out.
2007-02-15 12:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You studied to give blood?
Take it easy. Every one has bad days.
Your parents care; just pick your times to talk and be open. If they are paying bills that is a bad time. If they are having a difficult time themselves, that is a bad time. If you expect them to read your mind, that is also a bad time, which you made.
You'll get another girlfriend. Think over what you did at the dance and don't repeat it on another date.
I'll be 50 next month. Trust me, you are living your good 'ol days RIGHT NOW! Make the most of being young.
Change your mindset. Get up with a positive attitude. Be thankful for your blessings. Count them one by one with an attitude of gratefulness and your mood will change.
Tomorrow is not promised to you, so just live in the moments of today.
You'll be fine.
The name for what you are suffering is called teenaged angst. Everyone goes through it.
Suicide is the end, period.
Today is not your day. Keep living and the chances are 50/50 that tomorrow might be your day.
Your fingerprints are all over the handle of your destiny.
Live well.
2007-02-15 12:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is not the answer. I know you probably hear it from a lot of people. You said "roadtest" and "snowball" so I'm assuming we're around the same age. Don't worry about girls. Girls are bitches...and yes I am one...just not a *****. I can't belive she broke up with you on Snowball...thats horrible. The roadtest is not a big deal. Just retake it. I was scared shitless of mine too. If you ever want to talk about something e-mail me.
2007-02-15 12:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok failing the road test,... tht is sad but man loads of ppl fail no one goes n kills themselves.. they jsut give it another few shots!!
other than tht gf breaking up at snowball... man my bf broke up with me on the eve of my birthday!@ ( bloody A**hole) i am perfectly fine.. yeah it took me 2 yrs to be fine but i am fine
my dad has never ever supported me in anything i ever wanted to do... always freaking discouraging me.. reminding me how much lucky i have tyo be to get into a certain course or university blah blah
man my point is we all face the same freaking probs .. time is a gr8 healer.... two weeks from now u wont even rem all this happened or how u felt.. jsut chillax n watch some tv .... watch some comedy show like seinfeld or frndz..... u will be fine
n suicide is not a solution bcuz it will "give u" nothing........ n u will be the loser.... tht aint a happy thought either ~!!!
2007-02-15 12:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by ninjagal3000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that your life is sucking right now... and you're probably sick of people saying, "That's normal, suck it up and deal..."... because it still sucks, and it's not them its you- your life-- your ex-girlfriend (I still say that's so rude/harsh!), your mom gloating at your misery, your embarrassment at failing the driving test....
And I'm gonna say the same thing- yeah, it stinks, but it will change, it will get better.
When I was in high school (back in the dark ages), I didn't have a boyfriend for most of it. Finally started dating a guy near the end of my senior year... and then he dumped me that summer.
I also failed my first road test... didn't get my driver's license till I was 20.
But I survived... I realized that if others are jerks- it's their deal, not mine.
If Mom wants to gloat- it merely shows the smallness of her heart.
If GF dumps you, her loss- she's clearly not worth the time, especially if she's B-- enough to dump you AT the dance.
If you don't have a DL, you don't have to pay for insurance...
You'll survive, and with any luck at your 5-year class reunion, your ex-girlfriend will be fat, and you'll have a hottie on your arm.
(oh, yeah, I'm still the same size I was in high school (8), and all those snotty drill-team girls- they're fat!! hahahaha--hahahahahahah!!)
2007-02-15 13:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know man, at the snowball that some low down stuff, and i dont know what kinda relationship you have wit yo mom and girlfriend but i can tell u is keep being yoself and keeping yoself up, kindness never goes un-noticed someone will see it soon. They let u take road test over and over, just look at it this way when u pass he test you'll know it better.
2007-02-15 12:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by Victor B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, God does love you even if you feel no one else cares. You sound like you are having typical teenage feelings. Hang on and try to get through it! Life does get better when you get older! You still have problems but you have the maturity and experience to deal with them. If you have a pastor, try talking to him. If you don't have a church home, try visiting a church. God put us on the earth to care for each other! I will pray for you!
2007-02-15 12:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by Luna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has bad luck... okay! It could be some much worst.... At least you have a mom... At least you have a home to stay in. Do you eat? How about shower? So you are loved.... Hell you must be going through an awkward teenage thing :)
2007-02-15 12:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by make?love*not$war! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have yahoo messenger, there are wonderful depression chats where you can talk about your problems to people who have experienced and are experiencing things just like you. Whenever I am feeling sad or deppressed I go there and I feel a lot better afterwords. You could even help others with their problems.
2007-02-15 12:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by martin_pc_maintenance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im gonna be uncomplicated with ya the following. No for sure i dont always pay interest to my husband. lots of the time, the children, canine, telephone, and television.are distracting to me. And even as he's watching television, or on the computer and that i need to repeat myself 4 circumstances, i do not throw a more effective healthful about it because i understand he will ultimately pay interest.. yet i always pay interest even as he tells me what he "likes" wink wink.
2016-10-17 07:23:33 · answer #10 · answered by doti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋