especially when you are together?
and you know it is true
what about the ladies in the reverse situation?
is this very common?
how do you handle it?
2007-02-15 12:41:50 · 7 answers · asked by Charles R 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
It might be normal but if you let if let it over come you it could be the end of the marriage. Just remember that she married you and loves you and that she looks at guy the same way you look at other girls...Just be happy and love her, don't let the little stuff keep you up at night.
2007-02-15 12:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by Spades Of Columbia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is normal is for people to sometimes forget what their marriage is really based upon and I would encourage you to focus on that and leave cosmetic things aside. She loves you for the fact that you are Charles and there is only one Charles. You may or may not be good looking. I am hoping your love of one another is not based upon visual items, but far more on what is inside you like loyalty, pride, humility, intelligence, faithfulness, steadiness, the willingness to listen and the courage to keep on loving come hell or high water. I am nothing much to look at but people love what I have inside which is a deep and abiding love for everyone. If the surface stuff starts to unnerve you, as with your above question to us here on Yahoo! Answers, please step off to one side for a brief moment, be in your own company for a moment, and ask yourself once again what is truly important with your wife. This is your life partner we are talking about. Not planes of the face, a neat bum, good posture, a friendly pair of eyes or a nod in a hurry kind of thing. We are talking about the kind of depth of feeling that will easily last an entire lifetime. This comes under the heading of Values, and physical beauty ranks down there compared to that.
2007-02-15 13:20:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman I can see that a man could feel uncomfortable for a short time, but a relationship is surely based on many things and to worry too much shows lack of confidence in that relationship.
2007-02-15 13:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by filmwatcher59 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband often looks at attractive young women, and even flirts with them on occasion, but it doesn't bother me because I know I can trust him. I too look at attractive men and sometimes flirt with them, but that's as far as it goes with me, because taking it any further would be disloyal.
I don't you why you're worrying, to be honest. It's normal for one's partner to see other people as attractive, and I personally find it motivates me into staying in good shape. So does the husband.
2007-02-15 12:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that is an uncomfortable feeling. I hope she didn't tell you that! You just have to deal with it... even if she was with him... she would still one day find another man more handsome then him. So really, she is with your for who you are... he doesn't have that!
2007-02-15 12:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be such a tw@t.... I GUARANTEE that she sometimes has fantasies about other blokes while she's doin the nasty with you....
EVERYBODY thinks of other people at some time or another.... if you don't your just weird....
Take her home and bang her senseless all night I guarantee you will both feel better!!!
2007-02-15 12:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by Just Me Returns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah ~ my wife thinks Sean Connery is way more handsome than me and it still got me wondering!
2007-02-15 12:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋