my breast implants removed? I had to remove them as I was having a lot of health problems and there was no other way to know if they were contributing....they were and I am healthy now but my husband doesn't seem to want to be intimate hardly at all anymore. I am very petite and I have a pretty face, but yet we only have sex about once every 7 days and we used to have sex more then once a day. I am almost willing to risk my health and get a new set of implants...if I had the money.....just to make him want me more again.
Does anyone have any suggestions on how to entice him into wanting me again, or am I wasting my time?
2007-02-15 12:38:44 · 15 answers · asked by swtlilblonde31 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think he's very superficial if he can't accept you as you are. I think you need to put your health first. Implants can be a big problem for some women. I have heard of them even causing the development of Lupus. You don't need to end up sick over breast implants. If he won't satisfy you then buy some toys and satisfy yourself. I suggest the Rabbit vibrator. You can also try buying some sexy lingerie and setting the mood with candles...if he's a good guy he'll adjust to your natural self and things will get back to normal...
My hubby used to want me more when I was a size 14 than now. I am a size 5 now but my tummy has loose skin and stretch marks from our five kids. I get depressed and feel rejected but I just try not to dwell on it...
2007-02-15 12:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you must first ask the question? who were the implants for, you or him? if they were for him, then you have to think he is just shell shocked, but you should never get them again if they were hurting you. Then you need to ask if you are lonely sexually or lonely in the relationship. Trust me, there are 100 things that make sex great if you are with someone that is excited for you to share. Then you have to ask, are you yearning for your husband or the touch of a man. I am sure there are so many men that would love you the way you are if you had given them the chance.
The question that you asked is not the one you really want answered~
2007-02-15 21:34:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i use to feel about the everyday to the once a week deal til i found out that my husband was just going through a stage....it doesn't mean he's not interested or that he's cheating...it just means that every man will go through a stage in their life where they feel that they cannot put out as much as they use to at one time or on a daily basis.....just give him time and be happy....it will get better mine did at least i'm up to 4 days a week instead of 1. It will help alot if you can give alot of foreplay!
2007-02-15 12:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kickin' Back 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it might be a weird feeling for him having you as one boobsy hot momma then the next day boobs were gone! just give him time... maybe it takes a little getting-used-to for him. anyway if he really loves you, boobs or none, sex would still be as satisfactory as it was. and maybe you should research more about sex,and how tos about sex so that when you do it, it'll take his mind off your breast. and instead wallow in ecstasy on what you are currently doing to him. good luck girl!!!!! boobs isn't everything you know...
2007-02-15 13:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by diwata 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex multiple times per day can't last forever, maybe, you should think of it as having nothing to do with your attractiveness and more to do with being worn out.
I think a pretty face is much more important than big breast any day.
2007-02-15 12:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by A L 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Once a week is average for some people.
If he is only attracted to you because of your boobs then he isin't worth being with.
If he is your husband you should be able to discuss this openly with him. If need be get some marital counseling asap
2007-02-15 13:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, girl you did the right thing by having them removed. If he don't like you now its too bad for him. He married you for better or worse. If you think he don't like your breasts then ask him. This may not be the case but if it is; tell him he needs to deal with it, not you!
2007-02-15 12:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't risk your health just to please your shallow minded husband!! Tell him to go get a penis implant!! Seriously, all joking aside, you should talk to him, tell him how you feel. Maybe he has some feelings to share with you as well. Good luck...
2007-02-15 13:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by ksgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truely loves you...you wouldn't of got them in the first place. They are horrible for your body. Maybe he doesn't want to hurt you since you had health issues. Maybe he feels responsible and is secretly beating himself up.
2007-02-15 13:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My goodness. He has issues. Does he love you or the boobs. Give him time he may get over it. Men sometimes can just get all upset over the craziest things like a wife's weight gain etc. You either love them or not.
2007-02-15 12:50:23 · answer #10 · answered by ladybugjan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋