im so blah?

Question

my life is so boring and repetative. im so dull and lifeless and life suddenly isnt fun anymore, everything seems to go into circles and i have enthuisam for nothing. i dont think im depressed but i would like change and to brighten up my life a bit but i dont know how!! i feel like im soo average and boring that im not the least bit unique
im a freshman i high school, im in band, i play soccar indoor/outdoor, softball, i take piano lessons, go to youth group/church sometimes.
i have hazel eyes, boring flat brown hair, 5'1, 120 pds, and i feel like i look blah too
any suggestions to spice up my unnoticed life would be helpful!!!

Answer 1

Well I think to help you feel better about your blah appearance would be to go to a salon (if you have the money) and tell them you want a new look. Tell them what you have in mind or just get your hair highlighted. I always feel more perky when I've gotten something nice done with my hair. As far as your life goes, you could always try to get to know people from other social circles that you don't already talk to. Is there anything you ever wanted to know how to do? You could learn a new craft. In my spare time, I like to make "no sew" blankets. They are very simple to make and don't take a lot of time to make either. You could always sell them on ebay for an extra bit of money. Depending on the size of the blanket, you can make about $30-60 per blanket. I hope this helps you some.

Answer 2

Everybody feels that way at your age. Later in life we learn to accept it. We are special to our friends and family and children. Thats about it. The important thing here is that this is ok this is the way it is.

At your age things of this nature will bother you a lot. Things like why doesn't anybody like me or why can't I do anything right etc etc. All normal stuff. Is not uncommon for people today to live to 80 so since you must be like 16 years old then you have only lived 16/80th of your life. You still, have much more to go and much more to learn. Lots more. As you grow older you will find that your view of the world will change and things that where goosd once will seem like bad ideas and things that you saw as awfull are actually good ideas and where good things. I'll give you an example.

I once went to yahoo answer and saw somebody with a question where they said that they where a freshman in highs school but their life seem unoticed. The person said that they played soccer, softball, piano and and active member of the church. The person also said that their height was 5'1" and they weigted about 120lb. So, I said to myself, wow, this person does a lot of things. This person has a lot going on in their life. Just the sports alone m,ust be very athletic. This person plays the piano, thats impressive. The best I can do is whistle and annoy my friends with it. This person do all of this things and is only a freshman in high school. I think thats impressive.

Answer 3

Well I hate to sound like your father or something but life isn't always going to be exciting. Sometimes you need some boredom to appreciate the fun. Besides, judging from the activities you mentioned your life doesn't sound all that dull to me. It sounds like you're just stuck in a rut. You may love these things you're doing and probably were really excited to start doing them at one time, but now it has become the same old routine for you. The best way to fix that is try something new. It doesn't even matter what it is, it could be anything as long it is something that you want to do. The world is your playground, go have some fun!

As for how you look, try not to be so judgemental of yourself. Of course you're going to think you look blah, we are all our own harshest critics. Try this, tomorrow when you're at school walk up to any guy and ask their opinion of your looks. He sure won't lie to you.

Answer 4

What are you really interested in? Why not do something you really enjoy and it'll make you feel better. Also, maybe you could get a new haircut or dye your hair.

Answer 5

not really, i hve the same problem so i joined the track team and all that did was leave me wiped out. Good luck though

Answer 6

dye your hair red, go somewhere random on a train ith a friend, snog a stranger, roll down a massive hill, ........etc

Answer 7

Bleeeeeeaaaaahhh!!!!

Answer 8

if it makes you feel better your life is probably more interesting then mine

Answer 9

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