my very soon to be husband is kinda quite in bed, dont get me wrong he's great in bed and loves to please me, but i kinda like to hear the moans and groans, and dirty talk doesnt hurt either. because hes so quiet it makes me quiet too, which is not my nature really. i told him about it and he just said thats how he is, that he enjoys it but isnt the vocal type. how can i get him to speak up a little, i dont want him screaming, just a few heavy grunts and dirty talk could help.
2007-02-15 12:24:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why just because he is quiet do you think you need to be quiet?
my man is sometimes quiet and to help him out i start getting a little louder and moaning and groaning and he seems to feed into that. lead by example honey..... you never know what could happen!
2007-02-15 12:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 05:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by winkles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's a confidence thing? Also, some people are just not as loud. You may have to get used to it. You never know, a few months of married life and he'll relax.
2007-02-15 12:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by Johanna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try speeding things up he is probably just savouring the moment im sure he is and is just enjoying you a little too much...not so much love making more energetic sex is the answer.
2007-02-15 12:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
y dont u talk to him about it ..believe me , me being a guy i wouldnt mind talk bout sex with a girl ....just tell him how u feel and u ll get what u want !
2007-02-15 12:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by jaideep b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dig ur nails in him he"ll moan,ride him like a bronco he"ll groan
2007-02-15 12:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋