why am a so physically unnattractive i am on uglynet uglywoman i am so facialy deformed and disfigured can a?

Question

with any suggestions for plastic surgery to be operated on my face i ahve been saving since the age od 21 to the age of 34 but i have to lose weight prior surgery as i have put on over 5 stone with steroids and over eating through depression thnaks for any good advice to help my deformed face which is so badlydifigured plese note this it what i see in the mirror and dor me it idstrue and real so thanks for any advice serius only please this is killing me emotionally and mentally as i dont know what i have done wrong to be born this hideous looking kathy

if you want to look at the picture it ison ugly net under uglywoman can you give me any advice on what i can change

Answer 1

Everyone is beautiful in their on way. If you do want to have plastic surgery just remember that your new face might not be as great (unique) as your old face.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder!! :)

Answer 2

Are you sure that you are ugly?

You look OK to me|


But Don't Don't Don't get plastic surgery, for that will give you nothing by a fake look|

Your looks are OK| You have a natural beauty that would be attractive to a good guy|

What is happening now is that people's notion of beauty is being distorted by what is portrayed on TV these days|


Personally, I think that runway models and hollywood stars are hideous| If a girl is pure, she is beautiful| That is because as Aristotle said, the soul is the form of the body, so what is in the soul radiates out to the body| So soul beauty translates into body beauty, but that cannot be confused with the media's depiction of beauty which is only on the surface, which is no beauty at all|




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Answer 3

U may be feeling bad at the moment and dont like what u see in the mirror i have been there myself and it was very hard u are who u are and any plastic surgery that u have might make a change for a while but u need to deal with issues from with-in urself first before u make any drastic action i am sure u look fine and i wish u all the best

Answer 4

PLEASE READ - You sound as if you are suffering from body dismorphia. I have taken a look at your picture and there is certainly nothing hideous about your face.

At the moment you seem to have a very low self-esteem, and I'm sure as you say, the weight gain hasn't helped your situation.

There ARE ways in which you can help yourself feel more attractive, which I can help you with, but you need to start with the BASICS first, which is the negative way you perceive your body image.

Trust me, if you don't start here you will never be happy with the way you look, no matter what you do on the outside.

You need to see a doctor to discuss ways and means of dealing with your dismorphia. There is no point living with the pain you are feeling everyday over this. It will ruin your life.

If you need any more info, feel free to contact me...I can help you.

Answer 5

kathy do you have a disphoria or are you really abnormal. if you have a disphoria seek medical help. if you just feel unnatractive then go ahead an get the plastic surgery. you only have one life to live so do what makes you happy. an remember you are beautiful on the inside an dont let society judge or make you feel less attractive because of your weight or facial apperance. what ever your choice is do it because it benefits you an not what others think of you! stay positive an dont let it get you down.

Answer 6

You are NOT ugly.. and you are NOT physically deformed. AT ALL. You may have a condition though called BDD. Body Dysmorphic Disorder, which is basically a horrible self-image problem. Most of the people who have it look completely normal. They just have a bad self-image problem. You can go on wikipedia.com and look it up if you want. I saw your picture and I thought you were pretty, by the way. :]

Answer 7

Do you mean this
http://www.uglynet.com/profile/00000373.jpg
If so! YOU ARE NOT UGLY AT ALL!!!!! I'M NOT JOKING I'M COMPLETELY SERIOUS, I SWEAR THAT I'M SERIOUS! My dear you are blowing things up? you've got such a beautiful eyes!!! let your hair grow, don't cut it, leave it to become long i think you will become prettier, and btw if you have a beautiful soul you will be seen as a beautiful woman no matter how you look like, i'm not joking i'm serious
Hello pretty, you are pretty woman not ugly you just used the wrong word
I'm serious
you do not need any plastic surgery, you need to believe that you are beautiful

Answer 8

Hard to know if you're really unattractive without seeing a picture.
But even if you are unattractive by conventional standards, don't worry about it. They always say personality is more important, which sounds rubbish but it is true.
I fancy that Amy Winehouse for example, and she's a minger, but she looks like she goes like the clappers.

Answer 9

You do not need plastic surgery im sure you look fine try working out putting on makeup taking showers every day!

Answer 10

You look pretty to me. You should be confident about yourself.. However, if you feel that getting a plastic surgery will make you feel confident then by all means go for it..

At this point I would like to mention that a lot of people go overseas for their plastic surgery treatment as it's much cheaper there as compared to the US even with the travel and other related costs added up.

A friend of mine went to India for her cosmetic treatment and she saved almost 70%. She used a medical tourism facilitator called Healthbase (http://www.healthbase.com). They have a lot of resources online you might find helpful. They can even hook you up with a plastic surgeon who can help you answer your questions and solve your problem. So check it out.

Hope you feel prettier soon!!