my girl friend of 8 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago. She has things to figure out for herself and says she is taking every day as it comes. There is no-one else for either of us at the moment. We were best friends and have been since we were 17. I miss her so much and would love to have her back but i know i cannot force her to love me enough to get back with me. There were no real problems in our relationship, she says i am a fantastic guy but its all her. We have only spoke once since and that was about what we are doing with our house. We still exchanged "i love you's" at the end of the conversation. She knows how I feel and knows I want her back but i have decided to just leave her and hope that time apart makes her want to come back to me. Is it best to just let her go and hope or should i fight for her and risk pushing her further away?
2007-02-15 10:47:26 · 6 answers · asked by whitey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Take this time to redisconver yourself. You have lost yourself in all of this. Take a look at this opportunity to rebuild and rest from this emotional rollercoaster. Focus on you and figure out some things about you. Keep yourself busy, see a therapist and see if there are issues you have you might uncover. Read books on how to handle situations to strengthen yourself. You will discover an inner strength you never knew you had. The strength to be alone. True strength come from within, not from others. You need to find your sense of worth again. Be better than the man you were when she first met you. You are young and you still got the juice. We get complacement in our development when we are in a relationship. We forget to develop as individuals.
2007-02-16 11:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are doinf right. If she really loves you she is going to realize she made a mistake and will look for you. Maybe all she needed is a break, if not then just let her go, whats ment to be will be if not move on and you are will someone else that can love you
2007-02-15 18:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by kathernva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and see how she feels about the situation. Try to find out her thoughts and the things that she wants. After you receive your response, then you'll have to be the judge of that. Go with your heart on this one
2007-02-15 19:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by George 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you might wanna do, is just explain how you feel, and if there's nothing there for her, and she needs a break, Then let it go. Be realistic tho, if she needs a break now, she'll need another in a couple of months. Sorry about your situation.
2007-02-15 18:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by Bobbi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man the best advise i can give you is to give her some space and do or say thing that won you her heart like things you guys done when you guys got together but don't give to much space just make feel like your there. trust me you don't want to push her away. please read my question. going to my profile or click the question below yours good luck man
2007-02-15 18:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by SAL-NICA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say just talk to her like friends... keep it like it is... but dont be like " baby i want you back" every 5 seconds... because that will result in her leaving for good. but just keep everything the way it is! everything should work out for you! :] good luck
2007-02-15 18:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by hunny_boo_boo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋