2007-02-15 10:36:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
thx but i mean how to let it go?
u know when something bad happen to you u remember all the bad things that happened to u
is that because im oversensitive ?
how can u heal urself ?
thx for all of u
2007-02-15 10:44:36 · update #1
i feel that wounds dont heal
as if they are put in a basket
and every now and then i remember them i feel bad
2007-02-15 10:46:33 · update #2
Learn the concept of apathy.
2007-02-15 10:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo all you need to do is ask your self the question WHY? All the time and live in reality and instead to feeling bad or angry look at it like a learning experience. Don't give things more meaning than they are worth. If some one needs to be forgiven you can only do if you can forget what they if. They go hand and hand. If some on cheated to lied to you then you will never be able to forget that. That is something that eat at you. As far as yourself is concerned just treat your mistakes as learning lessons and don't repeat them. If you do that long enough eventually you will hardly do anything bad to your self. Got it.
2007-02-15 18:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by flydives 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not being oversensitive,you're being human, feeling human emotion. It's what we do after the fact that either makes us or breaks us. Hence,alcoholism,drug abuse, divorce, insanity,incarceration,and finally death. Dwell on what makes your life good, on what makes you face every day. You're going to find alot of things in life that will hurt you or you'll disagree with. And you'll find alot more that will make you happy or impress you,take a little bit of that impression with you everyday, and eventually the hate will dissolve.
2007-02-15 18:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by jaypea40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't easy to forgive people, especially when they do the same thing to hurt you again.
Someone accidentally killed my daughter. I don't know if the man even felt my hate. But finally I did forgive him. He's still guilty of the act; it's just that I don't hold it against him. The hate would have been more devastating to me than to him. It can destroy a person. We all make mistakes.
2007-02-15 18:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by cowgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on. All wounds heal with time.
2007-02-15 18:44:59 · answer #5 · answered by Zack B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do is let go of what they did to you so you can heal yourself don't carry it around with you let go and be free..live by fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me
2007-02-15 18:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask GOD For Guidance & If You Choose Not To believe In God Lets Just Call GOD- GOOD ORDERLY DIRECTION
the first thing to do is forgive yourself you cant forgive or take care of anyone else unless you can forgive and take care of yourself first
2007-02-15 18:45:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must accept the actions and consequences of your own and other people in order to forgive.
2007-02-15 18:38:52 · answer #8 · answered by King Kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go Baby, just let it go and mooooooovvvve on and live you life the best you can.
2007-02-15 18:39:50 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont hold grudges and stop dwelling on things.
2007-02-15 18:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by Sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋