...I call his cell phone and hear dishes chinking and soft music and I ask him where he is and he says in town. Five minutes later I ask him again where he is and he says his truck broke down and he is eating lunch. I asked him why that was a big secret before when I asked him and he said he anwered my question and wasnt hiding anything from me. I told him I asked him where he was not what town he was in. He got mad and stopped talking to me. So I hung up and didnt hear from him for 3 days, And all this from a man that said he wanted to rebuild the trust for me.
2007-02-15 10:34:24 · 15 answers · asked by Jeanine G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You say you forgave, but clearly you didn't . You don't trust him. Ask yourself, will you ever? Is there anything he can do to erase the hurt he caused and make you completely trust him again? Is he worth it?
2007-02-15 10:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by inaru816 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, soft music and dishes could have been coming from a diner or restaurant that was "in town." But, hanging up on you and not talking for 3 days doesn't show a lot of maturity.
If you have forgiven him cheating twice (once too many IMHO), and he isn't groveling completely, doing anything and everything you want, then personally I don't think he's too sincere about trying to regain your trust. More likely he thinks he's fooled you twice and been forgiven, and he can do it again. Just my opinion...
Dragging this out probably doesn't do anybody any good. Either get some counseling together and get back together, or call it quits. I'd opt for the second option if I were you, but I don't know the entire story...
Best of luck.
2007-02-15 10:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Leave him lady. He disrespected you before and now he's doing it again. I don't get it, how can any woman stay with a cheating man, I'd do that Madea thing and throw some hot oatmeal on his stupid where I sit down.
2007-02-15 10:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey, but once a cheater always a cheater. My ex was a cheater, we divorced 13 years ago. I hear about him on occasion, he's cheating on his new wife, who was one of the many he cheated on me with. They were married 6 months after we separated.
Move on, you'll be much better off.
2007-02-15 10:37:23 · answer #4 · answered by FKC 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know in these situation all you can do is communication if he gave his word then broke it once & twice .... then just tell him that you can't live with somebody that has no word & that if really loves you he must prove it.Good luck my dear wish you all the best just be wise & patient
2007-02-15 10:42:12 · answer #5 · answered by kitycat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is only one thing you can do..get rid of him! you have already forgave him 2 too many times..stop waisting your time with someone that seems to be taking advantage of you...you forgave him before..meaning he knows you have weak boundaries and you will forgive him again...kick him to the curb sister
2007-02-15 10:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by Bad Mood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, learn your lesson. This guy has betrayed you once and sounds like he is doing it again. Move on and find someone who will treat you better!
2007-02-15 10:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have always asked my self ?...why do girls give guys a second chance?...it makes no sence...that's putting your self down...you think that if you played on him he would give you a chance?...you think if you acted the way he does he would be with you ??...why do girls dont value them self?...what you need to do is divorce him...why do you want to be living thinking if is cheating on you !??...there's a lot of guys out there...dont settle for a loser that dont appriciate the woman he has by his side!!
2007-02-15 10:41:44 · answer #8 · answered by theoneandonly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame one you!! Kick him to the curb, and do not tolerate cheating at all, or all you are going to get is a cheater.
2007-02-15 10:37:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no doubt, he's cheating on you. any additional days you remain with this guy are wasting your life away. respect yourself more and leave this loser and move on with your life. you deserve much better.
2007-02-15 10:39:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋